I take everything you say about us being too grumpy and not nice enough with a grain of salt seeing that as soon as I read what you've typed I'm presented with a very grumpy looking kid telling me to "Get out da way"
I agree-grumpy and whiny-too many turn every thread into a 'poor me, fuck you' moan fest. and pull me right into it-real mood killer. Too bad with such a wonderful communication tool at our disposal, so many dont know HOW to communicate.