It's been two years since the woman i thought would be the mother of my children fucked me over. We met when i first moved to Australia, i was 19, she 18 and yeah i was lost. She was Italian and came from a middle class family, i on the other hand worked two jobs and crashed on the couch of a relatives but i knew the importance of hard work, and i know now she didn't. That first year was amazing, i truly believed i was going to be fortunate enough like my parents and say 'i found the one'... Yeah, she was always dependent on me, and i didn't mind that. She was my future wife, the love of my life...her happiness is mine. So i would pull more shifts, and help neighbors out with mowing their lawns... At 21 things were looking up when i got a job at a prison, money was really good and i began saving for the fucking expensive ring i knew she wanted since she kept telling me... ...etc...sorry guys, you can figure out what she did to me. Called off the wedding and took all my money and the ring. I tried to work it out but she left for Perth. Since then, yeah i drank with my boys over PS3 and Xbox games...but it still hurts, especially now since a mutual friend of both of ours has invited me and 'IT' to the wedding next month. My bad, i left a lot out, not into bringing this shit up, since she did humiliate me in front of my family, and i paid her plane ticket to meet them...fuck
pity party for a bitchy chick? How long you were together ________________________ = when you'll be over her 2 She seems crappy; at least she left before getting married and trying to get more of your things. Better an open enemy than a false friend.
Be thankful she didn't marry you then take you to the cleaners. Seriously chicks like this need to be smacked
Thanks everyone. My bad for the sob story, just needed some insight on how to handle seeing her again. My boy's all say to take a hot girl and rub it in her face but that's not my style. I'm more worried about seeing her and demanding what the fuck did i do wrong? I'm emotionally fucked that i have never had another relationship since her. Fucking buddies yes, but i won't let anyone make me the fool again. I just don't know what ill do or should do when i see her at the wedding.
Living well is the best revenge. Look as if it didn't bother you at all. Not letting one take advantage of you again and being bitter and closed off to new things are 2 different things.
She's a cold hearted bitch - but that has nothing to do with your problem. You gave your heart away instead of making her earn your trust and your love. You dived off a cliff without checking how deep the water was -- and that can cause some pretty serious injuries. But you're only going to do it again if you keep on blaming the cliff. I'm not saying you should forgive - but you need to forget. Unfortunately, it's unlikely for you to wise up in time for the wedding - but you never know, maybe seeing her again is just the thing you need. Brace yourself, avoid her -- and carry on as normal. Don't listen to your idiot friends -- you need to take emotion out of the equation -- I mean sure, if you run into a girl you would like to take do it - but spiting her could make it even harder on you because of the emotions involved in the act (jealousy, anger, etc. etc)
If you truly still love her, then you must fuck her sister, best friend, mother, aunt, whatever, to show her how not to treat people. When you see her at the wedding tell her unless she gives the ring back you are going to get a lawyer and sue her. If she is wearing the ring tell her unless she gives it back immediately you will cut her finger off and take it back. Then tell everyone at the wedding that she slept with all your friends and has anal herpes, and to beware if she tries to get too friendly, as she has a restraining order for identity theft for funding her heroin addiction. Tell them also to be careful with her around kids. Especially little girls, as there was an 'incident', and the investigation is continuing due to her work at the school. Just so they are aware, but not to say anything about it, because she can act out sometimes. That should do it.
