XXX How to give a good Blowjob

Never blow him again. Ever. Tell him your afraid of disapointing him. Watch him beg... Get him to go down a bunch on you first... yeah! Be evil

 

i dont know... i have had some HORRIBLE blow jobs. period. girls who dont know what they're doing should back off and watch some porn. and teeth hurt. We_all_shine_on, you should never do such things. your too beautiful, i wouldnt let you if i were your BF.

 

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Why would he tell others about how you "suck at it"? Does this guy love you at all? If not, just dump him and get a nice boyfriend who'll love you. BJ techniques may be important, but it’s mostly about how you feel about each other. Most of the BJ excitement for a guy comes from knowing that the girl he loves is taking him in her mouth. A more experienced guy will actually subtly lead you how to suck him and make it good for both of you. Again, BJ techniques are great things to know, but they can’t replace the loving relationship between two people – a $10 “no feelings involved” street hooker will invariably beat almost any “next door type of girl” in BJ techniques since that’s what she does for living. Yet, you rarely hear any guy brag about getting off with a hooker. Anywho … good luck.

 

Hmm if you tell a man to put his penis in somebody elses mouth its very likely he will. Then he might find somebody who does give good head.

 

IMO ALL blowjobs received are good blowjobs. Also if you do receive one remember to return the favour, its the polite thing to do

 

yea man totaly agree there what an ungratefull git your boy friend must be no such thing as a bad bj in my expierience unless girl friend is a vampire ouch

 

Keep hand on bottom half and move up and down while suck it in and out. move your head and hand around in swirving motion. sucktion is the key. lick the middle shaft towards the balls. massage the space between balls and asshole hole with one hand while sucking.lick the head a little not a lot.look into his eyes-drives him crazy! ;-)

 

In my opinion, some women focus too much on "sucking", and not enough on licking and kissing.

I always need to remind my wife. Sometimes she goes straight for the whole thing, if you know what I mean. The best is when she starts by kissing my chest, and then my stomach, and then maybe my balls. The REALLY best is shen she licks the underside of my cock, dragging her toungue up the length of it four or five times, and THEN taking it into her mouth.

Try talking dirty too.

Drives me crazy.

 

all you have to remember is: no teeth whatsoever! and use your tongue as much as you can! heres some more tips for you:

try to take as much as him into your mouth as you can. i know some people have complained about gagging, but my bf is about 7inches and iv managed to get nearly all of him in my mouth! try to 'tuck' him into the side of your mouth, into one of your cheeks, and that should stop you from gagging.

flick your tongue over the head, and get plenty of spit on there so its all slippy and slidey.

keep eye contact with him often when your giving him a blow job. my bf tells me thats a major turn-on.

try giving him a hand job and blow job at the same time: just give him a hand job as usual, then bring your mouth down on top of his dick and suck and lick. if you can, with your free hand slowly and gently circle your fingertips over his balls. its tricky doing that all at once but i know my bf loves it!

finally - pay attention to his reactions to find out what he likes. if he moans at something you do, you know you've done something right! more importantly, ask him what he likes, either during the blow job or after. just ask him questions such as 'how does this feel?'.

hope that helps!

 

I posted these tips here recently, but I'll post them again for this thread:

Some blowjob tips
(NB: these are all things I like, not every man is the same)

1. Most men love eye contact during a blowjob. They also love women to talk to them while they're getting their cock sucked. Try and talk with the cock almost in your mouth, licking it between words. This drives me crazy!

2. Although eye contact is good, try to avoid very quickly glancing up. It just looks a little sly and uncomfortable and seems like you're not enjoying it too much. Try to look as if you're enjoying it or the guy won't feel comfortable.

3. Don't actually suck or blow — "sucking" and "blowing" cocks are just figures of speech. Just fuck him with your mouth; no need to play him like a bagpipe.

4. Men like to be teased, too. Don't just suck cock. Lick it all over (down to the balls). Kiss it. Move your tongue all over it slowly. I often think the more time women spend with the cock not in their mouth, the better the blowjob is! Just putting your lips near to it, breathing on it, or caressing it lightly with your lips, is a massive turn on.

5. Dunno about other guys, but I love to feel hair on me when I'm having a blowjob. Try your best to get your hair to brush the guy's stomach, or if you can get it to, to touch his cock. We love hair.

6. Please DO NOT fake an orgasm from sucking a guy's cock. It's just weird! Why would a woman moan from sucking a cock? If you seem phoney, the guy won't enjoy it. (By the way, talking dirty doesn't count as phoney, and all guys appreciate that.)

7. Don't be embarassed to make "squelchy sloppy" noises. The noisier, the better. If it's too quiet down there, it's a little weird.

8. It's amazing what a difference it makes the way a girl holds a cock when she's sucking it. If she holds it firmly in her fist, it's a little off putting. If she holds it delicately with her fingers, like a glass of wine, then it's very sexy and feminine. (Unless you're being dominant and nasty — then go for the fist.)

9. Drool and spit more! Personally, I don't think you can have too much spit on a cock. If you can do it, try and get a spit trail to go from the tip of your tongue to the head of the cock. We love to see that. Not every guy does, but I personally love having my cock spat on.

10. Whether you're wearing clothes or not, putting a cock between your tits and squeezing them together is very sexy.

11. When a guy gets a blowjob, he doesn't just want to fuck your mouth, he wants to fuck your face. Women's faces turn us on. If you can sometimes brush his cock with other parts of your face, that makes for an ideal blowjob.

12. If you can, lick under the balls and round the sides of them. We love that.

13. When you first put the cock in your mouth, or when you're taking it out, move your lips really slowly over the head of the cock. We love to savour the sight and the sensation of the cock going between your lips, so the slower you do it, the more enjoyment we can take from it.

14. If he's close to orgasm, tell him how much you want his cum. Tell him you want it on your face and you want to swallow it. We know it's phoney, but we love to hear the words. And by the time we actually cum, we usually don't even care what you do with the cum. It's all just talk.


Again, I must stress that this stuff is just my preferences and some of it may not apply to every man, so maybe check with your boyfriend?

Are there any girls who can offer any similar oral tips for men?

 

My friend asked if I'd suck him and I said yes. Then he asked if I'd swallow and I said I dunno (give my advice on that and or what it tastes like if I do swallow) and if I'd deep throat. I'd definetly gag with that so I don't think I'm gonna do that....

 

Cum has the consistency of thin snot, or a whipped raw egg... So, if you can handle something kinda slimy, then you've got half the battle won.

Taste... Well, that differs from guy to guy... It's hard to describe... Tangy, bitter, salty and sour, all rolled into one. If you get a guy with mild spunk, then it can actually be a pretty good taste. But if you get one that's really strong, it can be hard to handle.

If the jizz gets into your mouth, then whether you spit or swallow is irrelevant, because you're gonna taste it and feel it... So you might as well swallow it, while you've got it in your mouth to begin with.

Deep throating is something that you may need to practice. Also, the angle of his entry may make it easier for you to take him deep. Just experiment to find the right technique.

 

swallowing is so much easier, cleaner. and i dont mind the taste.

 

after reading dizzy mans post I want a bj really bad! anyone care to help me out

 

Dizzy man is clearly an expert at recieving blow jobs, and giving instruction, As am I.

He and i disagree on only one particular.

He says, don't fake orgasm, and he is correct.

On the other hand, if a man knows how to talk to a girl on her knees, with his cock in her mouth, and if a man knows how to use his hands on her nipples and between her legs at the same time,

Faking orgasm is seldom necessary.