I'm not talking about obvious things people, I'm talking about the subtle things people could never know about until they've done it. For example a cousin of mine HATES to be asked, "What's wrong with you?" or "What's wrong with you today?" even if the person means well. My ex-girlfriend always got waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay bent out of shape when somebody would use a word incorrectly. :& What burns your ass?