Wtf? Craigslist Personals

Not long ago I thought I finally had the relationship I had been waiting for.There was love trust mutual and I felt secure...
Then one night I came across an email that he sent some hoe on craigslist personals. He had to go out of town the weekend prior and I wasn't invited. No big deal till I read what he told this girl... I was devastated and when I asked he said nothing happened....I was just something he did...
Of course it turned into some web site money making thing so she wasn't real.
The problem is it's ruined my trust. All I can think is if he's done it before he will do it again and what if she's real next time.

 

Plain and simple.

Say goodbye.

 

lesson here?

don't fucking snoop on your bf's email account......you are the one that he should be worried about

 

yeah i don't know, it sounds like he buys hookers. like you said, that's not generally a one time thing, especially not while in a relationship.

 

sort of like you, and making this post repeatedly.

 

sometimes boring shit like this, dont even get our delete fingers a hard-on..

 

Dump him, and move on to the next one who will spend 6 months not getting any until you 'establish trust' only to then find out you are lame in bed, then search for hookers on craigslist

 

Hey vanilla gorilla, you obviously have issues bigger then mine. I do thank this peanut gallery for your comments, but really, I don't think I understand why your all so rude, obviously I thought this web site was something it's NOT

 

ok whatever.....but think of this


if you run into one person during the day and that person is an asshole then you ran into one asshole


but if EVERY person you run into in a day is an asshole then it is actually YOU that is the asshole


lighten up....your problem is small and trivial in the big picture of life....just move the fuck on and this problem goes away....

 

there is another answer....if you are unattractive,stinky,gross etc then you are lucky to even have a man so just put up with his ways and shut up

 

So what I seem to be gathering from all of this is what?
I wasn't snooping and I'm not stinky or gross, or bad in bed.
So now what? What does it all mean now?
If I was never supposed to know would that make it ok?

 

I agree you've gotta be careful with Craiglist personals......I replied to an ad where a 38 year old woman wanted a guy to sit and watch her play with herself ..Just bring a couple of bottles of wine and a pizza is what the advert said....Well It beat just staying in watching paint dry or the X Factor...so I answered and went along.....Anyway to cut a long story short...she was sat on the floor playing on the X Box by herself and she just said..."Right you can sit and watch me play with myself on the X Box".....Now i think it was a scam just to get a pizza and wine.....but technically she was correct with her ad...she was playing with herself.........So you gotta be careful and watch for time wasters...mind you it was still better than watching X Factor.

 

you should have pointed out that you did bring the pizza and wine, which is what the ad said, and then not shared them with her.

 

Yeah ya right....I'm just too much of a soft touch.

 

of course not..........don't you know that craigslist is basically a skeevy fuck site?......he isn't going to bring you a tshirt from his weekend away he is going to bring you gonorrhea ....or hep-c....

bite the bullet here and move on



and in the future do not mistake infatuation ,obsession ,attention etc for true love

 

Communication. I can see how you would not want to trust him after that. If you want this relationship to work, you need to talk about it.
Ask him why he was trying to meet up with another woman. He did it once he will most likely do it again.
Ask him if it’s something you’re not doing for him or is he not committed to your relationship.

If he tells you he wants something you don’t do are you willing to try it? If he says he wants another woman would you have a 3some? Talk about it or give up on him, your call.