date a guy who's married but they're more like roomates than husband & wife, he's miserable w/her because he's got no love, & he's started divorce proceedings because he wants to be w/you? One of my friends asked me this, and I said as long as he's going through w/it & not lying, then it's ok. What think you all?
You aren't dating and he is divorcing so he can be with you? Sounds odd to me. What does "not dating" involve? Other than that, Yeah! what Drumminmama said; once he (or she) moves out AND the paperwork is in process, I see nothing dishonorable.
Sounds like they are already dating if he is divorcing his wife for her. Too many men lie about it just to make the girl feel ok about dating a married man. They will say the divorce is just dragging on & on... or that they can't do it yet because of something that happened, but that it will be soon. But by then she will be all attached to him & not realize what it going on.
I hate when people say they are doing it for me..... because feelings change and things could go sour. If he is getting divorced because of problems with his wife then I can understand but if he is doing it to be with you then stay the fuck away.