would you rather...

somebody of the opposite sex tell you you're great in bed, or tell you that you have a great personality?

 

Hmmm, I think I'd prefer personality...

 

well that depends, if i just fucked them a few minutes ago, and they told me i had a great personility, i'd take that as a sign...just like if i was praising a girl for her rational decision in something and talking about how great she is, and she we're to respond with "and your great....in bed...." then i might take that as a sign too.

 

When someone says "you have a great personality" it usually means "yer an uggo and I don't want to do you" so I'd pick the former.

 

Wow...you didn't ramble on at all.

 

if i had sex with someone and they said you have a great personality, that means i suck in bed
if i told someone theyre great, and all they can think to say is that im good in bed, then that means i have a shitty personality.

 

Personaly, I'd rather someone enjoy my personality, than my ability (or lack of... ) in bed...

 

hehe I got it before...I just thought it was funny how you explained it.

 

It's the in bed part that keeps 'em comin' back

I'm told enough that I have a "great personality", I wanna be told that I'm good in bed

 

Yeah, but if a girl tells me I'm good in bed, I know she's full of shit...

 

Whatever works...

 

hahaha... so much hatred

 

Does this mean I get to have sex first?

 

I'd rather be told I have a great personality... you can try to learn new techniques for the bedroom, you can't just change your personality. And if we're having a real relationship (not just booty callin each other up repeatedly and pretending that we're dating, like my last relationship) there gonna be dealing with my personality a helluva lot more than how good I am in bed, particularly at the start of the relationship.

 

Good idea! I mean I am a guy and all and of coarse a primal instinct says to "get as much as you can" but I would much rather know that I am enjoyed all day then the little bit I could offer doing the other.

I know I would be told a whole lot more about my persanlity then how I was good in bed, my luck it would be during!

 

i've heard both about myself, that i'm great in bed and i also have a great personality...so i'm all set thanks....

 

Why not both? How about "you have a great personality, especially when you talk dirty to me while you *uck me from behind"?

 

personality, thankyouverymuch.

 

ummm... you're welcome? maybe i should rephrase the question for ppl who have it all... and maybe a little extra... *cougharrogancecough* which one pleases you more to hear?

 

okay to answer my own question...



i gotta go back to dangermoose's response and agree with that; it depends on the context of the person saying it... if we're in bed, i wanna hear, you're great in bed hehe...
although... i wouldn't mind hearing both all the time...