Would you prefer your partner to be submissive or dominant?

My bf just told me that i'm equally submissive and dominant.. but what do you personally prefer?

 

both
little bit of this
little bit of that

 

I just realized that i didn't leave an option in the poll for both. Oops

 

I'm with r0llip0lli

I like the middle-ground with most things.

 

You need a third option that says both.

But I guess submissive if I were forced to choose between the options given, because then you could teach them to be dominant...and learn their own power, you'd just be their guide.

 

I enjoy a submissive partner but to be happy I need to be dominated

 

yea i realized that at the last minute. this is my first poll post, so i'm still learning the ropes.

 

Either way the mood flies here.

 

I prefer a switch. But, if you`re going to be submissive, be submissive, rather than passive and resisting every fucking thing I do.

Hate that shit.

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It depends on if they are male or female. I like to be sub with most guys and dom with most girls, but am happy either way.

 

i agree

 

Thats interesting is there a reason why you like being dom with females?

 

To be honest, I'm not a 100% sure. I'm the same way usually if the guy is younger or I feel like I'm the more experienced one. it's kinda fun braking in the younger guys, as long as they aren't intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants. i get off on the thought of telling a girl what to do, how to do it, and basically making her my little slut. Granted, that is only if she would be into it.

 

That's very hot. But what if she is experienced, young.. and likes to be dominant, too? hm. Well with an open mind, anything could be workable and fun i suppose.

All of the females i've been with didn't have any experience… and to be honest, i didn't either but i always seemed to know what i was doing, and i was always the dom one because of it.

 

if she likes to be dominant, that would be fun too. That way you both know what you want and aren't shy about it. I have been with a lot who lacked experience also. It can be frustrating, I live in a small area, and have had a few who were only bi because they had a few drinks, or wanted to "try" it. I am really open minded though, so I'll try about anything.

 

I second that. Passive is not submissive.

Now asking a question here, to those who are dominant do you take great care not to leave scars or do scars come with the territory?

I aim not to do any punishment that'll anything permanent, but I wondered if anybody else had this dilemma.

 

Dominant. I'm so submissive it is crazy.

 

The middle way. A pardner who is flexable.

 

I'll go with a variation. "Eager to please."

 

same