Would you interrupt sex to take a phone call?!

Single man in my early 40s, recently met a lady in her 50s in a bar, got on very well, went back to hers for fun Saturday night/Sunday morning. Exchanged phone numbers but kind of thought it was probably a one off.

Last Friday I got a call from her asking if I'd like to go round for lunch and watch the tennis - she runs her own business, but said that the office could do without her for a day and she fancied a lazy fun day. So I went round, had a light salad lunch, watched a bit of the tennis but quite soon ended up kissing on the sofa and in bed again.

So I'm on top and pounding away, not far from coming and I suddenly hear classical music- then she gasps for me to stop and then get off, and says 'it'll be work, it might be important'. As she was still panting a bit, she waited a minute to get her breath, then picked up her phone from the bedside table. She then listened to a voicemail message, then rang her office and had a ten minute conversation about some conference presentation. She then told me she needed to send an e-mail, which she did from the notebook in the drawer next to the bed. This is all while we're both naked in bed!

After 20 or so minutes of this, she said 'sorry about that', and suggested we start again, even though I'd 'lost interest' so to speak. Eventually we got back to where we were and both came, but it was a weird experience. Her explanation was that when you run your own business, you're always on call!

About 5 oclock, she said she needed to get ready for a dinner party she was going to that evening, so it was a case of me having to get my clothes on and go as quickly as possible! She said she'd call me, but I'm not sure I want to be a middle-aged business woman's ten-years-younger booty call, particularly if she's going to interrupt sex to take work calls!

I'm quite stunned by the whole situation, I mean, is it something anyone else would do?

 

Dear Booty Call,
You are less important to her than her business. I'm glad that you had fun while you were with her. The next time she calls, you will know where you stand with her.

 

Yes, clearly.

I mean, I didn't think it was any great romance in the first place, but there was a point I thought 'this is ridiculous! Does she want me to go now?'

 

no chance! unless of course it was an emergency call.

 

Some people are just so work minded that they seem almost robotic when it comes to all things work related. It is a bit odd but I wouldn't freak out about it. I would say something though, I totally think a female would be insulted 9 times out of 10 if you stopped bangin her to answer the phone and I would let her know that stuff like that is mood killer. If she does it again, zip up and roll out.

 

Yeah I would have left. To me it's a matter if self respect. If I can't have your full attention while having sex then we won't have sex. I would take it as an insult. Business owner or cashier, the call can wait.

The closest I've came to this is stoppin for a few seconds to turn the phone off (because whoever was calling wouldn't give up) and then Resuming.

 

I listen to music when having sex and the only time I'm going to touch my phone is to change the song.

 

Years ago while we were having sex about 10 pm, the phone rung & it was her mum on it. I stayed inside my wife's vagina while she spoke on the phone & then we carried on where we left off again shortly afterwards.

 

hells to the no.. but then again I dont have my own business so... who knows? But I would say probably not.. I mean does she answer the phone when she is taking a shit? Shower? Surely the person could have waited 20 minutes? 45 minutes? whatever it may be.. I mean if you were fucking for like 10 hours or some shit ok.. But less than an hour? They can wait.

 

I've done it once. About 15 years ago I had a close family friend who died and my girlfriend at the time was giving me a condolence fuck (hey we all grieve in our own way). The phone rang so thinking it was someone calling about funeral arrangements I answered the phone. It was a fucking telemarketer. I got off the phone as quickly as possible and got back to the task at hand.

I've told friends that story since that happened and get looked at like I have 2 heads.

C/S,
Rev J

 

yes, but only for a phone sex call

 

Back when we were still dating, my wife and I where fucking with her bent over the sofa, the phone rang and I saw that it was her mom calling. I picked up the phone and put it to her ear and told her to talk to her mom while I kept slowing fucking her from behind. It was a whole lot of fun seeing how much I could distract her and to see her working so hard to concentrate She married me, so I guess she didn't mind too much.

 

nope, I'd use the vibrations to my advantage!

 

I've taking a call but it was late (after midnight) and on my home phone so I knew it was an emergency.

 

depends on how much money is on the line.

 

In rare circumstances yes, but 95% of the time I'd let it go to voicemail. If it was super important I'll hear the answering machine/voicemail message later and react appropriately.

If I found myself on the receiving end like you did, I'd brush it off if it was just a casual hookup situation, but if it was a serious relationship I'd brush it off maybe once and make my piece of mind known.

 

No