How many husbands , for a multitude of different reasons, have been sex starved to the point of considering almost anything for Sexual Health and Satisfaction? Wife can't, but she made some suggetions that have made me a happier and more satisifed husband. Did you cheat or find satisfying alternatives in your Mature years? A happier husband has a happier wife. What works for you?
I don't have the the answer as that's not something I've experienced. I think it's just compromise. Let go of all the hang ups of what society deems acceptable and enjoy life. But your wife needs to be accepting of the compromise too. If you are both happy but sex or a lack of it is a problem you need a release some where.
I don’t know if frequency is the issue. I’m sex starved because the wife and I are both very busy. But if we weren’t, or when we’re not, we usually have a pretty intense sex life. I think it’s more that there are parts of my sexuality that my wife just can’t satisfy. I can’t blame her for not having a penis. But it would be nice to be able to explore that more.
My wife knows I'm bi, and supports it. I think anyone that is bi and has a girlfriend or wife, should tell them. If it ruins the relationship then so be it, because if she doesn't want that and you do, there will always be that issue. Then you'll be sneaking around, and that's not fair to your spouse. Do the right thing.
Do what makes you happy. It's your life. You can't please everyone and there are some things you need to do to satisfy yourself. Play it safe and be discrete It's no one Else business, unless. You would like to share the steamy details here.
My first wife was the very same way. We never once discussed anything bisexual pertaining to me, but we did have scenario discussions while watching a movie or tv series and she made it very clear she would never tolerate her man having sex with another man. To her it was disgusting and gross, same goes for two women having sex. My present wife is totally the opposite and I consider myself very lucky to have her in my life. She's liberated me in a sense no longer having to hide my sexual desires for both men and women.
