HE WANTS A FEMALE LEAD RELATIONSHIP. AND IS TOTAL INTO BDSM AND HES ALSO BI . HE LOVES TO BE SPANKED AND PEGGED { WHICH THAT PART I WONT DO} HE CRAVES BEING HUMILATED WHICH IS HARD FOR ME CAUSE I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO SO IM REACHING OUT FOR SOME IDEAS THOUGHTS ECT THANKS
I'm surprised there isn't any responses yet. Some tips for you. Verbal humiliation is the best place to begin. You start playing this role by talking down to him. Tell him his cock doesn't satisfy you. It's too small. Go on to say he isn't what you need but he will have to do. Tell him you want a bigger cock to fuck. A bigger man to hold you and have his way with you. Just talk bad to him. Do this while you are having sex with him. Set out one day of the month that when you wake up he and you know this is just play acting. Then treat him awful for the day. Just one day a month or so. Don't let him have sex with you for that day. Just be mean to him all day long. If you are brave enough and can step out a little join the website Fetlife or find a sex club to attend. Either of these places will have a couple, like a husband and wife, or a single male who would be more than happy to join you, humiliate him more, have sex with you in front of him, and even be up to taking over the pegging duties for you. Beware that entering into these scenarios can be daunting. Emotions can get out of hand and if you can't take it don't do it. But do this just for that one day. Then all goes back to normal until the next month when that day comes around. His anticipation while looking forward to that day will drive him wild. You'll also be better prepared knowing it's only for that short time period. Who knows, with practice and experience you may learn to enjoy BDSM too.
Does he like feet? Foot worship is exciting in that a woman can dominate with her feet-I prefer mild domination, and teaching control over ejaculation, and if ejacuating too soon give three light taps on the butt with a whip. Just an example. Domination can also be a turn on itself.