Would it be cheating on my girlfriend if I...

experimented with these two guys i've been talking to? I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year but I really want to experiment and give these two guys blow jobs...Would I be cheating on my girlfriend if I went through with it?

Do it?
Don't do it?

 

do it thats not cheating lol

 

So, what is cheating in your mind?

 

idk...i guess my opinion is that since i'll be pleasuring someone other than my girlfriend it would probably be cheating. and chances are good i'd get naked too

 

maybe if he falls in love with others thats cheating

 

its not cheating as long as you let your girlfriend blow me at the same time

 

More to the point, what is cheating in her mind. I suggest you talk with her about what you want to do - you might be surprised at the reaction.

 

That's my opinion too. Although, if your girlfriend knew about it and was happy for you to experiment - then it wouldn't be.

 

its cheating if you dont invite her

 

It's cheating yes, gender has nothing to do with it. Cheating is when you are with somebody other than your partner when it's not agreed.

 

if she knows about it and is OK with it, then it's not cheating. if you do it behind her back it is.

discuss it with her, you may find she is more openminded than you might think.

 

I never understand how people get confused about this.

If you are in a romantic/sexual relationship with someone and you do something romantic/sexual with someone else and HIDE it from them (actively or inactively), it IS cheating...

Of course, if the OP didn't know this already, he wouldn't have come here and asked for other's permission to cheat on his partner.

 

definately cheating. and u would get every disease they have and more!

 

It's cheating if she wouldn't approve of it, so I'm probably messed up for telling you to go for it. I think experimenting with your sexuality, if there's no way of her finding out, is worth a little dishonesty.

 

Or he could break it off with his girlfriend whilst he's exploring his sexuality?!

Cheating is not acceptable for anything.

 

Don't worry about infidelity. It is not important.

Explaining to her how come she has an incurable and possibly fatal disease and how you have the new nickname of 'Cum Dumpster' from smoking the bone of any man who comes within fifty feet is the real problem.

But women can be funny about certain things.

 

You'd have to ask her if it's cheating.

But until you ask her, assuming it's cheating is the safest bet.

 

.liycvhedf...i may have met he r tiomight......she dheats

 

and she is beaurtif fiu l

 

If it is an experience that you havebeen wanting to do then talk to her about it. Sounds like you're bi so you need to tell her.

She may be upset over the bi-issue, she may feel she's failing u - inadequate, but she can't give you dick; or she may be upset over the possible health risks. Why not ask her to join you - or if not join, just be present. She might, like my wife, find that she enjoys it!

Good luck,

Simon