would i change if i could?

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by honeyfugle, Oct 27, 2007.

  1. honeyfugle

    honeyfugle pumpkin

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    i was thinking about whether i would be gay or straight if i had the choice... and although i didn't come to much of a conclusion it was an interesting thought....

    on one hand, being straight would be a easy life. i have a fair amount of male attention. no need to come out to anyone. my sexuality would be "normal" under society's eyes.

    but then i think.... i like being gay. it's part of who i am. i don't meet society's norms anyway (i'm vegan for a start...) and more than that, women are sexy. ;)

    so i don't think i'd change a thing.

    :jester:
     
  2. l-foote

    l-foote L not i.

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    hmmm.

    being straight WOULD be easier, but women are just too damn sexy not to be gay.
     
  3. honeyfugle

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    so true.
     
  4. Bocks

    Bocks Senior Member

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    I always get this sort of a swelling in my chest when I think about being a lesbian. It could be...what do they call it...pride? Hah, it's not really like me to be proud of something I can't really affect, but when I was younger, I used to think it was an awesome feeling to walk down the street and think "I'm a lesbian, and nobody else on this street knows".
     
  5. honeyfugle

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    ^ i still get that feeling - it's amazing isn't it??
     
  6. Bocks

    Bocks Senior Member

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    It sure is!
     
  7. IlUvMuSIc

    IlUvMuSIc Senior Member

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    hmmm im not lesbian and i wouldnt change (i think) either... But more so because i couldnt deal with the hate from people that dont know about me etc... I already get enough racism ty... I dunno. I used to want to change. But i think both girls and guys are hott. i just need to be now :) so meh. :D
     
  8. SpinneyWitch

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    Wouldn't change if I could. First kiss was just how kisses SHOULD be!! And it all just got better and better from there.
    And yes, maybe "my life would have been easier" but I wouldn't be me.
     
  9. Rigby

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    I wouldn't change. No way! :)
     
  10. thewayiam983

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    i've wished i hadn't come out
    but even then i'm like "but then i wouldn't get to b myself"
    i've never wished i wasnt gay tho
    who in their rite mind could ever turn a woman down? ^.~
     
  11. gaygrantdenver

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    Life would be easier for sure, but I love being gay. Plus hetero sex makes me feel sick to my stomach.
     
  12. funkyfate

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    The only thing I'd change is society's outlook!
     
  13. riot

    riot Member

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    I wouldn't change. I love the fact that I'm a lesbian! Ah, the pride I have.
     
  14. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Free

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    I'm bi. And no, I wouldn't change. Women are just too damn beautiful! Inside and out.
     

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