i was thinking about whether i would be gay or straight if i had the choice... and although i didn't come to much of a conclusion it was an interesting thought.... on one hand, being straight would be a easy life. i have a fair amount of male attention. no need to come out to anyone. my sexuality would be "normal" under society's eyes. but then i think.... i like being gay. it's part of who i am. i don't meet society's norms anyway (i'm vegan for a start...) and more than that, women are sexy. so i don't think i'd change a thing. :jester:
I always get this sort of a swelling in my chest when I think about being a lesbian. It could be...what do they call it...pride? Hah, it's not really like me to be proud of something I can't really affect, but when I was younger, I used to think it was an awesome feeling to walk down the street and think "I'm a lesbian, and nobody else on this street knows".
hmmm im not lesbian and i wouldnt change (i think) either... But more so because i couldnt deal with the hate from people that dont know about me etc... I already get enough racism ty... I dunno. I used to want to change. But i think both girls and guys are hott. i just need to be now so meh.
Wouldn't change if I could. First kiss was just how kisses SHOULD be!! And it all just got better and better from there. And yes, maybe "my life would have been easier" but I wouldn't be me.
i've wished i hadn't come out but even then i'm like "but then i wouldn't get to b myself" i've never wished i wasnt gay tho who in their rite mind could ever turn a woman down? ^.~
Life would be easier for sure, but I love being gay. Plus hetero sex makes me feel sick to my stomach.