I just broke up with my x b/f and the best thing he could find to say was, "you're fat anyways." I thought this shit only happened in high school..lol I'm so glad that I don't have to deal with his shit anymore!
Thats nasty of him to say. My ex called me an anorexic after I broke up with him and got with someone else. And I'm deffinatly not anorexic. He also said some stuff about me being like my father (if you'd know the situation, you'd know how hurtful that is), me being a bitch, me never going to have a nice life, and some other things. And I've never been mean to him ever. This happened a while áfter I broke up though. But still; I know how shit that is. And indeed; on a moment like that you truly realise why you broke up in the first place.
Well he messages me and says, "I felt bad for you...you're gross looking...that is why I got with you in the first place." What a loser. Good thing I have too much pride to let him bring me down. Ayzcrava, I hate guys like that. They piss me off!
That I was psycho and would never find anyone who loved me as much as he did...oh and after I took him back he cheated on me months later...and I hung up on him and told him to never talk to me...so he messaged me and said he was breaking up with me hahaaaaaa. Another guy said that I would never find anyone because I was too difficult and that I was a gold digging whore. Oh and that my boobs sagged! hahaaaa ...I am now engaged to the perfect guy who doesn't mind that I am high matinence because he likes to maintain me. yeah...Glad you dumped the loser
I've heard the same. ^^^^ The worst I've gotten is that he wants someone who is not "damaged goods" or doesn't have "so much baggage". And he also told me that he never has been able to meet a "normal" girl. (What's normal anyway????) Keep in mind this guy had just as much of a sortid past as I did as far as abuse and emotional issues were concerned. AND he was on enough anti-depressants to kill a horse, and was still suicidal, yet I was the one who needed to be on meds and in therapy. I was like, "Fuck that and you!!" But yeah, guys sink to low low levels when they feel like thier backs are against a wall.
lol holy shit thats funny. not that i would ever say anything like that, but i mean just listening to other losers sounds funny to me.
Yeah, not so funny to me, but I understand that some of the things that people can say when they decide they don't want to be with you anymore are really out there.
I think when someone is broken up with, they feel a need to lash out at the person doing the breaking up to feel better about themselves. Bumble, if that's your pic in your sig, you're quite lovely - it shows infinite insecurity and immaturity for your ex to try and point out your physical flaws as part of why the relationship failed...what a maroon!
As an aside... Is there a good way to break up with someone? I'm living with my girlfriend now, but sometime next year it's going to half to end. Moving to different cities/countries/lifestyles. But of course I still love her, and know it's going to hurt her like hell. Any advice? Although if your advice is to end it now, I'm not particularly inclined to agree.
wow what an idiot. Its always a big kick in the balls when men get dumped but he doesnt have to act like a child about it. Youre beautiful and can do way better than his bitch ass, now you are free to find yourself a real man <3 I have a similar experience. I was dating a man considerably older than me, however i would say that in terms of experience and maturity he was younger than me. But he turned out to be a condescending prick. and after i dumped his sorry ass he said that dating me was like dating "the coolest girl in high school" but he needed something more. That was by FAR the stupidest thing a man has ever said to me.
I've never had a break-up since I've never been in a real relationship but several of my friends have gotten the same dumbass line from their girls. "We're just too different." That has got to be the dumbest and least imaginative 'excuse' in the world. I hope it'll never happen to me.
At least he didn't call you out of your name, I hate that but how old is that guy. Saying something like that he must still be in school and I'm not talkin about college, but glad to see your not letting him bother you. Good luck with your next relationship.
That isn't bad at all. At 16, I once cheated on a girl because I didn't want to go through the psychological work of breaking up with her and watching her cry. Of course, people are dicks at 16.