Won't Nudity Take Away Intimacy With My Partner And Desensitize Us To Sexuality?

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  1. libbyvote

    libbyvote Banned

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    as the title, Won't nudity take away intimacy with my partner and desensitize us to sexuality? my partner are not nudist and he does not know about my nudist life.
     
  2. Daretobare

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    My wife and I have been nudists for years. Me longer than her. Ive never noticed it ever having an impact on our intimacy. Our age and health has though
     
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  3. Vanilla Gorilla

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    How would you know though, you dont have anything to compare it to

    The only way you would really know is if you could rewind back to when you were first nudists together, not be nudists ever, and see the difference, if any


    My point being, no one is going to be able to answer this question, Its one of those, how is my life going to turn out if I do this VS if I dont do this
     
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  4. abarambling

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    I had to reread this a few hundred times to understand it. You, posters with your deep thoughts. I can't even with this stuff 'cause I'm too stupid.

    Anyways, I think it depend on the person.

    If you're a hardcore nudist, which most are not because nudism is a small subculture, then yes, you can take part in nudism without it negativity impacting intimacy and desensitizing sexuality. However, I think most would laugh their ass off, coward in fear, or just get really horny. And in that case then yes, totally... it would negativity impact intimacy and desensitize sexuality.

    I think I personally would be cool with it. Though, I'm not a nudist or practice nudism by any means.

    Since birth I have been in and out of the hospital due to several medical conditions. In saying that, if you have been in the hospital a lot too you would know that you have to get naked a lot in front of doctors and nurses. One time I was in the ER, and as I was talking to my sister there was a MALE NURSE doing whatever nurses do that required pulling down my grown to fully expose my chest. I was already hooked up to the heart monitor that my sister took a look at while the nurse was doing his nursing duties. And she stated that my heart rate didn't change at all while I was naked being touched by a male doctor, indicating that I wasn't scared, anxious, ashamed, TURN ON, etc. I also showed my breasts to a tattoo artist when I was planning on getting a side tattoo running up to my breasts. That was a no-go because I ended up needed surgery there, so now that area looks like a battle zone of scars.

    Of course, it's totally different getting naked for someone else vs. seeing someone naked. In saying that, I truly think if I ever was in a full on nudist situation, I would initially laugh my ass off, being all like, "What the fuck did I get myself into? Look at that! LOOK AT IT!". But, because I'm already so used to nudity, it's just a naked body to me, I would be like, "Okay, I'm done. It's whatever"

    I'm especially interested in breasts. Not in the sexual way. At least I don't think I am. But, I've been asked before due to being caught staring at breasts, and girls. When I was younger and stupider, so I don't do that now. However, I tell myself it's more for the value of comparison than sexuality. I could be wrong, because I never bothered taking the time to explore that area. I'm just lazy. I can't bother with that shit. But, yea... I enjoy looking at breasts... in photos and videos, lol. I don't like mine. I hate mine, actually. So, this is a thing for me. I so want surgery to "fix" my breasts. But, that's another thing. Point is, I would be elated if I was in nudist situation just to see boobies. I get elated over everything really, though... like a flashing light.
     
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  5. libbyvote

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    thanks for your reply, I'm thinking about telling him my nudist secret
     
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  6. Daretobare

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    A good intimate moment should take in all your senses. Nudity only takes away the visual sense. Like being blind... your other senses take over making the experience enjoyable. There again if one is just into raw sex and not intimacy it woukdnt matter anyway.
     
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  7. pensfan13

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    Not likely.
     

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