Wondering where i go from here.

Ok so there is this cool girl i know and we hooked up not to long ago and it was pretty good. I was going to ask her out and such until her roomate started telling me things. Im good friends with her roomate and she said that the girl i hooked up with is slightly easy/dirty and that it was akward for me to be hooking up with her roomate. Also that i was too good for her. I dont feel this way at all i dont feel like im too good for anyone but im just concerned about what would be said if i did go out with her.. Whats your take on the situation peepS. It shouldnt matter what other people think at all is what im thinking.

 

My opinion is that your opinion counts the most.

No matter what anyone else says, find out for yourself.

Just be prepared for anything.

=)

 

i kinda had the same situation- i dated a guy that wasnt liked by many people. but i could see through that, and he was a really great person.

sure, its hard to sometiems take mean comments like "what do you see in him/her" or
"you could do so much better", but if you like the person, there really should be no problem at all. remember, nobodys ever guna be happy at the same time, but as long as you and her are, then i ish you the best with everything!

 

Sounds like her roommate might want you???


I told my bofriend that he was too good for the girl he dated before me.

 

maby hook up with her roommate

 

I wouldnt worry what other people think.

If your good friends with the roommate, maybe you should talk to her more about the situation. Let her get comfortable with it. She may even be of some help.

 

No, listen carefully to the things you hear.

Filter it more carefully.

DON'T let your emotions blind you and it's always a good idea to do cross-checks on any person you're serious about dating or liking.

You're investing your emotion, time, thoughts and only you know what else on a certain person. YOU owe it to yourself to do your homework and judge for yourself if this person is who she says she is, or is something else altogether.

Nonsense about trusting your emotions entirely, and not caring what others think. You may learn that there are some experiences better learned from (trustworthy) others, rather than crash and burn (badly) learning yourself.

Your call. My bottomline advice: Don't let your heart destroy your mind.

 

Haha thx guys. I did do some cross checking and umm yeah shes a bit of a swinger. I think ill lay low for the meantime and just meet more ppl no rush.

 

Nothing wrong with swingers.. but if it's not your thing, then well..

Anyway, have fun.