Women's reactions when they find out you are bi?

Hey all, I was curious as to the reactions you get from women when they find out you are bisexual? As someone who only "came out" several years ago, at first I was hesitant to be up front with it, until I became more comfortable with it. Now, I am fully open about it.

However, I find I get a wide range of reactions from women when I share it with them. Middle-aged/older women seem to still be more traditional and not really supportive. Although, I am finding that ones that are divorced and rediscovering themselves are a little more open mided.

But, the younger generation seems much more open to up, more supportive. Even a lot of them are very excited when they find out and confess that it turns them on, in the same way that us men get turned on by bi women. I get a lot of them telling me they wish more men would be open to it.

Anyhow, curious what others are seeing?

 

In my case, it is only my wife that knows I am bisexual. As far her feelings, as the saying goes.......

It's complicated.

When she and I started dating, I had a relationship already with a gay friend of mine that had been going on for a few months. At one point when we were together, she asked me with a noticeable twinkle in her eyes, "Have you ever experimented with him?"

I said, no, but perhaps I should have admitted at that point, or not.

I wasn't very discrete in hiding my relationship with him while we were dating, and neither was he. So, she knew, but was in denial.

Several years into our marriage she asked me straight out, "Have you ever been with a man?" So I admitted yes, and she got upset.

A few years later when we were moving out of out first home, we walked through the empty house reminiscing. We stopped in the family room and she said, "The first time you were ever fucked in the ass..........by me." She was fucking me with a strapon often then. When she fucked me with the strapon, she would ask if I liked the feeling "of tits on my back."

When I started traveling for business regularly, she said she didn't call me at night because I might "have company."

Another time, when she found a trail of some of my "activities" while traveling for business she hissed me on her most demeaning voice,

"I know you blow black men in your hotel room when you are away." Truth be told, she sparked my interest there.

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I had a constant hard on after that exchange from knowing that she knew of my activities. Sometimes she would rattle off all the cities I had encounters in while I was away.

So, it's complicated, and contradictory at times.

 

As an addendum,

My wife did say one time that she would have reconsidered marrying me if she knew that I was bisexual. But again, she knew when we were dating and married, but was in denial.

I had an ex girlfriend that told me a few times that I would have been a hot item with gay men because if my tight ass. I hadn't discovered my bisexuality yet, so I wasn't into men at the time. She did ask me outright once "Are you gay?" So, I'm not sure where her head was at from all of that.

 

My story is a little different. I have been a bisexual since the 80's. From the time my best friend decided to watch porn and jerk off in front of me. We had both had a mouthful of each others cum shortly after that.

Fast forward 10 years, my friend and I are still secretly blowing each other and I'm about to marry my 2nd wife. I'm not so much skipping the first wife as leaving her out because she didn't know and is otherwise irrelevant. With my 2nd wife, she didn't know either, at first. Sex was the one thing wife #2 and I had right. I mean, all 12 years, start to finish. We even fucked the day I moved out. Anyway, that's not really relevant either.

So wife 2 and I were sexually "adventurous". We had a couple of FMF threesomes, which I definitely didn't mind, and when we started talking about a MFM threesome, I suggested my friend, who she knew, just as my friend. She didn't have to think too long and agreed. So without going into intimate detail, yet anyway, we had MFM threesomes with my friend on a regular basis for about a year, just focusing on her. He and I were still a secret. It was during this time I discovered how hot it made me to watch someone else fuck my wife, especially when he has her cumming her brains out. That was a fetish I didn't see coming, but there it was.

Like I said, after about a year of MFM (and even a MMFM one time), the three of us were together, naked and doing what we did. My friend was sitting on the couch and my wife was riding his cock with her back to them. So not only did I have a very clear view, I put my face down there to lick her clit while he fucked her. His cock so close to my mouth was making me crazy, but I continued to pleasure her. At some point, he slipped out of her, and out of, I guess, instinct? I grabbed his cock like it was my own to slip it back into her but my wife was looking down at me with my friends cock in my hand with a dirty little grin. Looked like an invitation to me, so I slid his cock all the way down my throat in one long slurp. There was a couple of comments to the effect of "that is NOT the first time you've done that" were thrown at me, but they were said good naturedly and then we got back to it. Sort of.

We never changed positions but instead of her, it was his cock I had in my mouth and I was slurping off every bit of my wife's flavor. She played with herself while she looked down at me sucking his cock. When she heard his breathing change and knew he was about to cum in my mouth, her hand started moving faster and in a few seconds, he was unloading a bucketload in my mouth and I swallowed down every drop. She orgasmed as I was swallowing his load. As I had before, I got a few more comments about how I "definitely had done that before" after watching me swallow all that cum, and without gagging. That night ended with her riding my face while he sucked every last drop out of me. Once again, she orgasmed as I was releasing my load into his mouth.

She thought it was the hottest thing ever, and after a few hundred more MFM with my friend over the next 6 years of my marriage, she was regularly the odd man out, and she didn't mind at all.

I said 6 years because it was then we got divorced for reasons completely unrelated to our sex life.

That was 16 years ago and I haven't found another one since, BUT, best friend and I still get together to this day. He was here yesterday. With a stint in the Marine Corps, 2 wives, 1 child and clinical depression with anxiety, we're still sucking each other's cocks 43 year later. We have cum with each other miles more than we have with any amount of woman combined. Now that's loyalty.

As for wife 2, I'm afraid I had a unicorn and let it escape.