I have played with other women. There are quite a lot of us out there. I'm hetero, but a little play is OK, for the sake of the other person and whoever is watching.
I like my lover to be my tough guy who could protect me if needed, has a strong hold on me, (BF nearly breaks my neck when he hugs me) but has good hands and a big heart so no women for me. I have loved women as best friends tho but never wanted in their pants.
I dont think womens soccer counts. By the same logic as if a tree falls in a forest.... No womens soccer player has ever played with another, as no one has ever watched