Women, what makes an unforgettable sexual experience?

Hello ladies!

I love sex and honestly I feel like I'm just beginning to come into my sexual 'prime.' I want to learn as much about it as possible because, well, it's important.

I wanted to hear from the ladies about what makes sex unforgettable for you. But more specifically how to make it an incredible EXPERIENCE as a whole. That's what I want to provide for my women at least.

What are some important details regarding the setting, cleanliness, etc? To be more specific, how can I prepare to make it the best experience possible? What things should I have available in the room/location?

Even more specific questions:
1. Would it be best to both take a shower beforehand?
2. Should I have products available such as lube and towels?
3. Would you like it if a man cleaned you up afterwards with a moist towel?
4. Would you like to be fed berries and chocolate afterwards over some pillow talk?
5. Music? yes/no
6. Lights on or off?
7. What else?

Also, what should I not do? What are the biggest NO's and turnoffs?

Basically, describe to me your best, most ideal and enjoyable sexual experience

 

Regarding 3), WARM moist towel.
Let the water run for a few seconds to get to the warm water.

P.S. From what I have been told, men are no good at cleaning a woman's vagina. It may be romantic, but its not as effective a cleaning as the woman would give herself.

 

Just be yourself and be interested, don't fall asleep during, if you are tired then don't get into it to begin with.
Clean up,,, ya we might do a better job but maybe kidding around after is allowed. I dunno, might depend on the woman.
You can set the mood if you like but many might be more On the spur of the moment, I think movies tell us we'd like strawberries and stuff in the room but on normal occasion I like it if it just happens as if we both just needed to do this. Some may be different or might like a birthday surprise kind of thing.
Mind you having said that some like the special occasion of being taken somewhere like a fancy hotel for a night of pure romance, I am not all about putting that cost up but if it happens I guess it would blow my mind. Years ago my BF at that time and I were on the road travelling and in our blue jeans and t-shirts he thought it would be fun to hit a fancy place for a night, was a good few bucks more then a motel but it was fun.
What not to do, don't ask Is this ok? Look for what is working, don't tell her to hurry up, that will set her back and you. We are much the same as you, an orgasm can be killed easily if the pressure is on to do something we can't do like hurry an orgasm. It happens naturally by what's happening and how she feels about you and herself. Smelling nice is a good thing. Bad breath can make things tough.
There is a lot we must not do as well so don't take this wrong, we can kill an orgasm too. Just be yourself and use all your knowledge and imagination and try things, let go if it isn't working and say I was trying something,,, you didn't like so it's ok, she might say yes. I did,,, never know, sometimes a new thing might show a sudden reaction you didn't expect but maybe not a bad reaction. Most of us will say no if we won't or can't.
Another thing, if you ask for something and it doesn't happen then don't think it's over, there is so much to sex that one little thing not offered isn't the end all of great sex. Every woman is different as are all men. We are not the model we are being shown as on sex videos and books, we are ourselves and we tend to surprise often but not everyone can do what you heard is possible.
It's a give and take situation but it is definitely not a favours thing, (do this for me and I will love you forever). If you don't like doing something it don't mean you should to get It in return, possibly there is more she'd like that could happen and visa versa.
Sex should be fun for both, there shouldn't be hang ups, or extra costs or pressure to like something not liked, and in all truth, for me if he has nice breath, smells good and shows he loves me all the time, (not just in bed) then I am all horny for him when we are having sex. I don't need special treatment, just knowing he cares is what makes me want him, really bad. It can be that simple. If not maybe you got a gold digger or you are just her pick for convenience which happens, both ways. (Not You but in general, you)
I have no idea why people do think sex should be a certain thing or done a certain way like its in a book. As many books on it that there are there is no real manual for sex. That's a special thing between two people, and those sex books should be looked at as a tips kinda thing rather then a How to kinda thing. You could read till yer nuts turn blue and still be wrong with your girl, ask her what she likes. Hopefully she isn't too shy to speak up, also ask what she doesn't like. Ya never know, maybe she prefers it in her mouth more over her V and not many guys would fight that. Many will do all but like it more in certain ways and that Can be a good thing, or a bad thing, depending on you and your likes and dislikes.
Some day guys, and girls will explore more in conversation before getting so involved it hurts to leave when they discover they can't make it work.

 

Oh, and there is always a dim glow in my bedroom, I like to see my man, maybe some like it dark so they can imagine it's someone else with them or because they are shy. As far as towels, that would depend on how messy your love making can get. Some need it, some don't.

 

What makes an unforgettable sexual experience?

This is difficult to say really because it can depend on mood. Sometimes I like slow and sensual sometimes passionate and hard, neither is any less satisfying.

I never like food in the bedroom. Not even breakfast in bed for special occasions.

 

Being well hydrated and access to clean water, lube, and towels never hurts.

 

what makes an unforgettable sexual experience? i guess the number one thing would be pregnancy. now that's a constant reminder.

 

over the years I have found a few things that work great. I keep a few items really close, massage oil (works as lube and is lickable), water/drink, towel.

Now I always have a candle or two on because complete dark gives me no point of reference and feeling around isn't the way it works. The one I am with now likes the dark because of body shape but I like to see with a little light.

My full "adventure" begins early and even before we get home.

-texts/call that is nice during the day
-Once we start it's shower time. This is where I get a lot of brownie points. I get her undressed and then wash her from head to toe. (new relationships keep me away from crotch and butt but it comes with time). wash the hair and take your time.
-gently towel her off
-in the bedroom you start kissing her and you shouldn't get anywhere near anything important for a while. Work up to it.
-Once you get going and if you do oral a good thing is to find the G-spot. Feel in there for the spot that feels like the roof of your mouth and then rub and pay attention.
-Once she cums then you can go for something for you.

Now you can always rotate from her to you but if she doesn't make a move to give you something just give her everything...it will come back to you. If you won't eat her out after you give her a creampie then hold off cumming till it's all done.

Worst thing is getting a star-fish that just lays there and doesn't make a sound but I always tell them that if I need to be 1/4" to the left of what I'm doing they need to move me. grab my hair/ears/hand and show me where to go.

 

All of these would get me going... turn off? Fucking and rolling over and going to sleep. Turn ones... new ideas, toys, experiences, an open mind, a give and take attitude, a sense of humor...

 

It's all about emotional mutual attraction. Sex without the emotional attraction is just a body function. With the connection it's at an entirely different higher level. This is my personal take on it.

 

By unforgettable, I guess you mean in the positive way.

Maybe for me, wanting to jump and skip and sing like a kid after its over. (Which I have never done, but I think the dear readers may get my gist)

 

Definitely having towels handy is a requirement for us. Back when my wife and I were in a threesome with my best friend and the two of them were fucking, she'd get so wet and he'd cum so much that they'd leave the most amazing puddle by the time they were done. (Honestly, he'd keep cumming for so long, and ejaculate so much that it almost defied belief! This was almost 30 years ago, but I wish I'd taken the opportunity to use a stop watch on him and time his orgasm from first squirt to last one. I'm thinking that he kept pumping, productively, for close to half a minute inside my wife!)

 

Chemistry is what makes or breaks things. Without chemistry, I don't care how good your technique is. Understanding is also key. I don't like men that question or criticize my preferences in bed. The best thing a man can do is accept me sexually.

 

Deep intimacy, slow and steady-not too fast, lube as needed, freshly showered is a must! Candle or lava lamp is nice touch, short nails for guy soft communication and face, hair touching.....

 

Very nicely said....:2thumbsup: