Women, How Do We Get You Top "open" Up For Anal?

Sorry about the typo, not "Top open up"... "to open up"

So I've got this new "Friend with benefits" who is absolutely hot... we've only ever "cuddled" and I've fingered her both in her pussy and ass, but she claims not to like anal, even though she said the last guy she dated stuck it in without her permission (which I find to be a bit fucked up to be honest, makes me want to punch the dude out).

I'm trying to repair whatever damage this guy did, and/or get her to open her mind a bit more, and I feel I can succeed snce she let me put a finger in her ass, but a finger isn't a cock, and I have a ways to go...

Any adivse from you women (please women only, I don't care what other guys think), on how I can proceed with this and not come off as overly obsesssed?

Thanks for answering my first post... I came across this place while doing a google seach on anal sex and women.

 

I love ass play. My mate has really got me into it. Before him I only Dabbled with it. His goal is to put his whole hand in my ass one day we will be there. the key is that we started slow he was patient as we work up To that point. Now I get my most sexual Pleasure being fucked in the ass. It's the best and I want it most of the time. And on the days it's not Comfortable He's okay with not doing it There has to be a lot of communication