Women cheat more with high status men than with men with money or looks

Well, at least this has been my experience.
Before I became the CEO of a large company I did not experience too much trouble attracting good-looking ladies. All were single.
After I became a CEO, the number of women who wanted a fling with me increased by a factor of 10 times. Most were married women.
When I left the company to start a smaller business (making about the same money and with the same looks), the level dropped to the pre-CEO stage.
I realized women were most attracted to a guy who had power (high status). By power I mean, the capacity to order other men to take action. I compared notes with other friends and they noticed this behaviour too.
Of course, other guys had looks and were soft-talkers and had as much success or more than I had, but I bet that if they had achieved a high-status position, their opportunities would have doubled or trebled at least.
Have you seen a similar behavior with women?

 

in a word…..YES.
When I embarked early in my profession, I was a single average looking guy, not making much money. Not much interest in me As I moved up the ladder, so did my income, and so did the attention I received. A lower echelon coworker got her hooks into me and we ended up getting married. BIG MISTAKE! Shortly after a big promotion, with the associated good money, she quit her job out of the blue! She had hinted about quitting, but I thought it was in jest. I was her badge of honor. Of course then she wants to have a baby as did I, so she’s now off of the pill . After she quit, her demeanor changed significantly. it had me rethinking the baby issue, at least with her. thankfully, we did not get pregnant, and after a few years, divorced!
Otherwise, I would be paying child support, on top of the alimony.
After the divorce, I dated/slept with a handful of women. But after my divorce, I could not help but wonder if they had ulterior motives? Was I just a status with a good income, or what? I remarried to a beautiful divorced single mother of two. Don’t get me wrong……. I love those two just like they were my own. Now, I have grandbabies! After two+ decades of marriage, and my semi retirement, reduced income, and our age and marital issues……. Was I just a meal ticket?

 

Many baby boomers were lured into marriage as such. Pressure from parents and that young women could not get far in the workforce pushed them to marriage for survival. Before baby boomers other generations evolved in the same manner. Marriage was the "meal ticket" for survival. My spouses mother during their marriage talk told to her to open her legs and let me in whether she wanted to or not. That she did it for her father. Her mother did it. It was required in order to survive. Thus the husband became a meal ticket. It wasn't until recently when women became liberated from that thinking, gained meaningful employment, and even equal pay, that marriage reasons changed. Todays young adults are shying away from marriage since women are able to support themselves and many have a larger income than their male partner. I have three granddaughters who are living with their male partner with no intention of marriage whatsoever. They do not need it to survive.

 

I've experienced this as well but not from a lot of women. Some act very different when they find out what my work title is but I'm never sure if it's because they think the status comes with money...and that's their motive or because they want to be associated with that status. I think, in the long run and at least for me, status is something they find out about AFTER the friendship begins. If status is their motive, I'm busy that day.

 

If an atractive woman, or even an unatractive - just average, not too ugly - desires a different cock (run away of routine) she just stands on the corner of a street. In just a few minutes, friendly gentlemen will appear out of nowhere wanting to "help" her. She just needs to choose one.
Men, even attractive ones, will not have the same facilities. They will be able to find a woman, of course, if they take the initiative, in a slightly longer time. There are exceptions: some of them may be chased by bold women, but it is not common.

 

Before I got married, there were plenty of women I wanted to bed who wouldn't give me the time of day; after I got married? They were all over me like bad habits and, yes, some of them were also married. What a difference a ring makes, huh? Is this "high status?" I don't know but what I do know is that women will cheat for a lot of reasons and some of them only make sense to her. A married woman literally picks me up off the street and tells me that she decided to go out and fuck the first guy she saw that she thought was interesting and, well, that was me. I was suspicious but we went to a motel and fucked for hours. She said that she wasn't dissatisfied with her husband; she just wanted to do something wild and "kinky" and picked me to do it with. You have sex with enough women who cheat on their partner and you hear all kinds of reasons for why they did but when you're married, everyone else becomes the forbidden fruit and that makes everyone else a temptation that can't always be resisted.

But it always comes back to consenting adults... even if the adults in question aren't allowed to consent to having sex with someone they're not married to. I think that the only reason to be concerned over why a woman will cheat on her man is if it's your woman who's cheating on you; otherwise, if you're game, does it matter why she's cheating?

 

I have also found that when you are married, more women try to go to bed with you than when you are single. There is a study that says that 90% of women found a guy attractive when told he was taken while only 59% of women found the same guy attractive when told he was single. I believe this behavior is similar to the one when people buy a product because other people say it is a good product. A married guy has a certificate of "tested and works" on his face.
Besides this, women are fierce competitors, and many want to demonstrate to themselves that married man prefers their company. They conclude that they are "better/more attractive". Sometimes they want to "harm" the other woman: an ex-gf fucked her boss's husband because she was doing her life miserable.
Anyhow, my point was not to complain or in any way criticize a woman who cheats with a married man, just to point out that in my experience, of all the reasons to cheat, it appears that women will cheat more easily/frequently if they can do it with a high status (high power) man.

 

The truth, methinks, is that they don't need a lot of reasons to cheat - they just have to have one and who they do it with might have meaning to them, like the CEO of a company or some other with power or she could find that guy working at McDonalds as the guy she needs for this moment in her life. A lot of women say they wouldn't want to be the other woman, which speaks to the competitiveness amongst them but they know that if they want someone who is stable and already trained? Go find a married guy to have an affair with. Wanna get back at that bitch who's doing your dirty or some other unfair shit? Find and fuck her man and hold nothing back. Women can be vindictiveness personified when they want and/or need to be but women - people really - tend to cheat because they have needs that are being ignored or addressed and not being taken care often it ultimately becomes a measures of self-preservation that calls for them to take matters into their own hands or, if you're not going to do it, they have to find someone who will. And let's not forget the double standard in these things; if you or I cheated on our woman, we're as wrong as a motherfucker can be... but if she cheated on us, she had a billion reasons ready that will justify why she did it and beginning with, "You cheated on me first, you bastard! You made me do this!"