Women...are You as Graphic as Partner When Sexting?

Was thinking about 2 women I’ve sexted with over the years...comes and goes. One I’ve known personally the other I met online years ago. Both married, both always excited to hear from me. However, I started thinking about it and realized I’m the one who makes up the fantasies, writes descriptively and sends them 10-15 second porn clips that follows the fantasy. They’ll write, “that’s hot”, or “I can’t remember the last time he did that (lick pussy)”. If I ask if they’re wet or something, just trying to get them to open up, they’ll write “God yes” or “throbbing” but not really steamy stuff.

Is sexting just not a real turn on for women, even if your partner is skilled at writing? It’s more of a turn on letting the guy do the sexting? It’s not just these women but every woman I’ve sexted with. Now phone sex is slightly better but it’s more sounds than descriptive talking.

 

To write a sexy text is an art. Reading or writing a sexy text usually turns on me much more than watching pron. The reason is very clear when you watch pron your eyes see whatever is on the pron magazines or in the movies, but by ready a sexy text, your brain has to interpret to develop an imagination which is sexier than pron pic or movie, so the skill of writing or sexting is so important to explain in detail.

 

When it comes to any form of sex, I don't consider it to be a contest. But i always endeavor to blow his mind by trying to be as graphic, descriptive, and dramatic as possible. It's supposed to be erotic and fun after all.

 

Im a very descriptive woman, so I definitely put a lot of effort into my sexting.

 

Graphic and descriptive action is what make sexting so exciting. Yea, and I guess pictures also help some...

 

The little details make for a big mess .

 

Yes I am. Usually I describe from past experiences and then I describe for what I want to happen. I love to hear people's feedback. Horny chat is amazing

 

Yep. It does get me through some boring evenings.

 

And if it's amazing, you can easily come.

 

That's the goal.

 

I usually start by asking my wife what colour panties she's wearing,if I am lucky she replies with a selfie upskirt..