Thats kind of mean isnt it, just cos he isnt the smartest guy in the room, you shouldnt point it out to anyone
This is such a typical post. Wouldn't he just read some of the many other similar ones. I never come to this forum for 'oral' talk though!!
Prostate stimultion is commonly to thank for the climax of a person regardless of gender and although the first time is unlikely to be fun if a woman can tolerate it she will soon discover the pleasure that can be delivered.
Women don't have prostates. But they do have other things that can make anal penetration feel really good. The anus is filled with nerves, for one thing, but in some women the g-spot and internal structure of the clitoris can be stimulated better anally than vaginally. That's why anal combined with clit play usually leads to a more powerful orgasm than just clit play on its or or vaginal penetration, but it's also why some women can orgasm with anal when they can't with vaginal, and some can even orgasm from anal with no external clit stimulation at all.
As others have said, anal sex is not painful if properly done. And it can feel incredible. Mind-shattering in intensity, if done the right way with the right person. I don't have anal sex often, but when I have, it's usually been the most memorable and intense sex I've ever had.
Because it's hard to do right. You need to prepare before hand, which takes time. Your asshole needs to be 'warmed up' so to speak with smaller objects before hand, you need to cut back on what you eat a day or two before and clean out your asshole first, need to apply plenty of lube, etc. It's a lot of work to prepare for, to make it clean, safe and painless.
Well... it's not. Only men have prostates, which is why women do not visit proctologists. The g-spot is part of the buried, internal structure of the clitoris.
Seems like all of these threads about anal seem to focus solely on how to make anal not painful for the woman (lots of lube, patience, go slow, start with fingers, use buttplugs, blah blah blah). Just the fact that anal wasn't painful doesn't mean it was good. What makes it good is when sex is better because of anal. Despite the ridiculous misperceptions propagated by porn (and I'm a fan of porn) and the general ill-conceived belief among the majority of guys posting on these anal threads, we women do not have clitorises inside our butts. Therefore, it is unlikely (perhaps not impossible) that we're going to orgasm solely from butt play. So to answer the OP question, what makes anal work for me is a vibe on my clit while being penetrated. You don't see a lot of that in porn, but I can almost guarantee you that the majority of women outside of porn who are into anal make good use of their vibes while getting penetrated. My orgasms are exponentially more powerful than during vag sex....which is why I keep coming back for anal. Hand your girl a vibe next time and see how that goes.
I must show my wife that last post doreigirl! I simply love anal sex and just wish she was up for it a little bit more. Your advice may just convince her to try it more often. I will keep you posted; fingers crossed!!!
Sometimes women do visit proctologists: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/proctology Now I've heard that there are 2 theories about what the G-spot is one is the internal structure of the clitoris the other is comparable to the prostate in the male that the urethra goes through accounting for Squirting or Gushing Orgasms in women. C/S, Rev J
You are mistaken. You are thinking of the Skene's glands which are located to either side of the urethra. The so-called g'spot is not a cavity, and therefore cannot produce nor hold fluid for ejaculation. As the prostate produces seminal fluid and empties it into the urethra (right?) so do the Skene's glands produce fluids similar in composition (ureic proteins, water,sugar, etc.) and empty into the urethra. There are two other glands that also participate in this process, but their name escapes me at the moment. While I have read arguments that the Skene's glands are actually part of the g-spot and clitoris structure, those seem to be minority opinions, and not persuasive to me either. Regarding proctology, I should have worded my position more carefully. Women do not routinely visit proctologists. Older men often do, specifically because of prostate care. Though, perhaps that is no longer the case. I asked my doctor to refer me to a gynecologist to explore the causation of my menstrual cramps because they start two weeks before my period and because they are intense enough to be relieved only by electrocution. She said that she would actually be in charge of diagnosing that. Just a few years ago my gynecologist was in charge of diagnosing that. Perhaps general practioners are handling more these days.
You do not speak for all women. And while not all women can orgasm from anal alone, some can—quite a few, in fact, it seems. Because everybody's a little bit different, and different people have slightly different pleasure points. Some women can't orgasm at all, some can only orgasm from external clitoral stimulation, some can orgasm from vaginal sex, some can orgasm from anal sex, most use some combination of the above, and a few can orgasm from all of the above independently. The clitoris is a primarily internal structure. What most people think of as their clitoris is the clitoral glans and is just the tip of the iceberg. It actually wraps around the vagina, and due to the close proximity of the rectum to the vagina, it's possible for anal penetration to stimulate it. Depending on how it's positioned relative to everything else, anal penetration may be better suited for stimulating it than vaginal penetration. It all depends on how each person is built.
When you're right, you're right. ) I'm right about that other stuff though. Skene's glands are considered homologous to prostate glands. But they are not a prostate.
