Here's the deal. Wive are physically done with Sex, or so they say and they know that men are just horny dogs. Have they offered any solutions to this quandry? My friends wifes suggestion(jokingly) was that we should just take care of each other and get it over with. What my friend and I both later realized that she wasn't joking. My wife was in full agreement with her and said she wouldn't mind discreet bi. She had already watched me and our old friend.She had wittnessed our old gay friend blowing his partner and thought it was hot. My wife had told my friends wife that I had done some bi with our old gay friend and it as no big deal to her . As a matter of fact, she felt that it was theraputic for men and also took the pressure off old wives who really don't care anymore If your Partner is done with sex themselves. What do they suggest that you do ? Jerking off just doesn't cut it ,for satisfaction.
My wife is no longer with me, but I believe in that situation she would have happily given me the freedom to fill my sexual needs with someone else. Your wives are examples of genuine caring. Selfless, not selfish.
Mi wife knows that I am bi and that I absolutely love it. We still have sex and sometimes she usesa dildo on me. Usually it's with her riding me reverse cowboy. That makes me cum super hard. It would be great if it was a real cock in me while I'm fucking her, but I doubt that it will ever happen.
Mine promises to do me. We even bought a thin one and later, a thick one. Did it a couple of times some 20 years ago. She promises to do it again seeing she has vaginismus and no penetration happening. Promises are just hot air. Nothing.
In my opinion if a woman is done with sex - which is her right - she should be wiling to let her husband have sex outside the marriage. Expecting your husband to just jerk off is unfair and selfish. If he is bi, this is the perfect opportunity for him to experience what he has been fantasizing about or not done for many many years.