Sometimes, I really enjoy seeing how people back down when I confront them directly. And not even for the sake of conflict resolution. I just enjoy observing the apologetic, spineless mush that used to be my aggressor. I love seeing them knocked off their high horses. It never fails. And I do it without remorse. And the knowledge that I never have, never would, and never would react how they did, given their situation, only sweetens the deal for. I know I'm making war not love (even if they made war first), and I probably sound like a huge bitch right now, but at least I admit it.
this approach will one day leave you waking up to a crowd of people over you while you ask questions about what just happened.
oh, shit, by "direct confrontation" I meant verbally. not physically. that is not the way of the jedi.
that fact was not lost upon me. verbally confronting somebody here often results in them physically confronting back
Last time someone verbally attacked me I told him to drop it, then he pushed me...and I hit him the face with my book and bashed his head in the wall... Of course he was a he and kept it up for two periods....Just didn't want you to think I'd do the same to you cause your a puty gurl and they shouldn't be hit!
it's not an attack as much as a response to an attack. I wrote this after speaking with someone who used to be a close friend, and who is now in the habit of screwing a lot of girls who he abuses verbally, to a ridiculous extent, and they all take it. he decided to insult me and I decided to call him on it. and it was great to watch him back down like people always do when called on it.
but thats still hardcore. I dont think I have the guts to hit someone with a book, though I've always wanted to. =P
eh, shit happens. you gotta forgive yourself for these things. and hey...at least no one from that school will ever try to fuck with you again.
I've had people I have never met before know who I am now (live in a small ish town) That part is always funny haha!
It sounds like you confronted a bully, good for you. Maybe he will learn to treat his friends (and lovers) with more respect in the future. James
If he's such an ass he deserves it. I like to confront things right away. It's better than letting the person think they have the upper hand on you!