I'm a little self-conscious about my size and I wanted to know if a 4 inch long, 4.5 inch girth penis will satisfy a women. Recently, I got turned down by one girl I really liked when she saw it and it's been eating at me. She said the average is 5-6 inches with a 4.0-5.0 inch girth/circumference and that she said quote "*sigh* if only it were an inch longer". --- I thought only the first 2-3 inches of the vagina were the most sensitive...how far do those nerve endings go? I'd really like as many females to weigh in on this and give me a few tips of advice and opinions on what they would react if they encountered a penis of my size? Are we smaller guys just screwed? (Note: the only positive thing i've learned from my size is that I usually don't have problems hitting their cervix in a painful way)
"Are we smaller guys ... screwed?" About as often as bigger guys. Guys of any size have to learn that raw material is useless without technique. Not only the penis, but the mouth, tongue, fingers and attitude bring pleasure to your partner. It may be that smaller guys learn this sooner than bigger guys. You may want to help your lady friend learn that her attitude is important in your relationship.
The girl sounds like a bitch Why would it matter man, just because some stupid girl decided to try and make you feel bad doesn't mean you have to let her. What? Is feeling bad about your penis size going to magically make it bigger? No, so stop complaining, work on your foreplay, learn to use the size you have to work with (because I guarantee you can find a way to make almost any size work) and get back on that horse!
Thanks guys this is pretty comforting. That girl and I are no longer dating by the way. It's pretty interesting to note that despite what you guys have posted the poll above shows 2 no votes though.
Would it help if I posted the same question/poll but in a non-public way? I won't get in trouble for a double post will I?
Find a midget? Or a few midgets, to make up for their individual statures? What kind of bitch goes that far, and then backs out once she sees your dick?
Ahhh I love having a deliciously average penis, not 100% on circumference however I think I'm 6.5 inches long. Case in point if I'm too small she has a loose vag, if I'm too big she's tight
I doubt any of the woman who answered no on this poll have ever had sex with a smaller than average penis! Otherwise, they wouldn't of answered or would have said yes. And if the woman answered no and HAS had sex with said penis, it's got to be because either she or he wasn't a quality partner, which isn't even the issue here I'm guessing. Two partners I've had sex with had smaller than average penises. ( 1 was probably 3 inches and the other 4 inches erect) Speaking from experience, friction on the thighs, lips, clitorus, and everything in between is absolutely enough to make a woman cum. Try woman on top for deeper penetration and move your hips a lot to create maximum friction. Yes, most of the vaginal nerve endings are in the first 3 inches, and you're only an inch short of average. Also, you could try guy on top and put her legs over her head. And really...just touch and kiss her all over her body! Many men fail at this, so this is your chance to be superior in this area. If you're comfortable with it, you can also try including a sex toy while eating her out. The bottum line is that people are closed minded, and the brain is the most important sexual organ. Sad as it is, you may have to do something to convince her you can please her no matter what. Maybe even start with a massage.
1. Masturbate in front of your male partner. Dude I do that anyway 2. Watch him masturbate. Mmmmmm fuck yeah, love watching a guy get off. 3. Enjoy sex toys. Done it. 4. Enjoy using other "objects" as toys. Yes sure why not? 5. Use food with sex: to eat small things, or use veggies for penetration. Lol veggies, I love smothering him in chocolate sauce, though guys that moan about how sticky it is PISS ME OFF! 6. somewhat enjoy sucking cock, at the least. Yeah cuz I know he secretly loves it, sometimes not secretly 7. Swallow Depends who it is, if it's a one night stand I risk swallowing AIDS 8. Enjoy anal penetration Most guys I meet don't dig it but I don't dig having something huge shoved up my butt. aint used to that yo 9. Enjoy receiving a rim job on my to do list ae 10. Enjoy receiving oral sex Aww yeah, its soooo good if he knows what he's doing 11. Prefer vaginal penetration over oral sex, even though you enjoy both. Vaginal is more connecting so I'd go with that 13. desire sex with another woman Done 14. desire sex with another man Done.. oops 15. desire for your partner to watch you with your other lovers at least on "some" occasions. Idk ae, I'd like it but it might evoke jealousy 16. desire threesomes or foursomes - yes please 17. want your partner to experience another woman, even if you have to be present, or involved. Depends really as long as there's no feelings behind it 18. Remain interested in sex with your partner while on your period. I get so horny during, it sucks cuz you know they don't dig it when you bleeding like a stocked pig 19. Some interest in water sports or pee play, although infrequent. Idk so much about pee play ae 20. Enjoy feeling "completely filled" by a large penis or toy once in a while. mmmmm yes.... 21. You have pubic hair. It is natural or trimmed, but not shaved. Nah fully shaved, he don't want that shit irritating him 22. Watch home-made "real" porn. Depends who it;s with but yeah 23. Read erotic stories. Yeah but this is partner stuff 24. Willing to tell all of your sexual desires. I'm very foreword so yeah, I like to go all out and make sure it's a thrilling experience and we can try a lot of stuff that will blow his mind and mine.
Well sir, sex can be a delicate flower sometimes. I think you really have to be on the same page with your partner for it to be good. This girl was not even reading the same book. You liked her and she tried to make you feel ashamed of your body. It's just unkind. Anyway, to be perfectly honest. There is appeal to big dick; mostly visual appeal (like big boobs) but sexual pleasure can be ... easier with a big tool. Even so you can give amazing mind-melting pleasure to your lover if you just tune into her. You have nothing to worry about.