me and my boyfriend andy were dating for awhile..we both had somebody in the past that we loved and he still wasnt completley over her even tho he told me he was. He works with my dad, thats how i met him i really did fall in love with him the first time i talked to him he's so sweat and nice to me he makes me feel whole. and last night he broke up with me because he said he wasnt happy and it broke my heart...i cryed and pucked and then i called my mom who was at the bar to come home. i needed someone to talk to. i know me and my mom dont get along(if you've read my other threads and posts you'd understand) but i know shes always there for me when i need her.. when she got home she must of forgotten about me because she was drunk and went straight to bed. i couldnt fall asleep till bout 4:00 a.m so i wrote him a letter letting him know how much he hurt me and i told him how much i love him and i hope that he finds someone who can make him as happy as he made me...but thats a lie i dont want him to be happy with anyone but me...i would do anything in my power to make him happy and for him to love me as much as i love him...i mean i thought he really loved me he told me he loved me befor i said it to him...i was scared if i said it i would get my heart broken and guess what i said it after awhile and well you know what happened with that...im sorry everyone whos reading this for wasting your time i just need to tell someone my feelings i dont really have any one i can talk to...peace and love?!?!
Um...personally, I think you're being dramatic and selfish. If you guys were meant to be together, you would be...and if you're not, your just not. If you truely loved him, you'd want him to be happy and if he's not happy with you, why would you even want him to be with you? You didn't love him in the first place, you were just infatuated. I know it seems harsh, but I think most of what I said is true.
Wow, Annie, that seemed a little harsh, but I can't disagree with a word that you said. You appear to be correct with your assessment. Hey Cut, you are seventeen and it doesn't appear that you understand what love really is yet. That's okay because you still have time to learn. Infatuation is not real love and even romantic love isn't what real love is. Real love is caring for the other person unconditionally, under any circumstance. If you loved him as much as you profess, you would realize this and be happy for him no matter what he does. It seems so many people in this world confuse infatuation with unconditional love. Boyfriends in the past have done that, so you're not the first or last. Peace & Love
thanks everyone..and ya i am being selfish but i cant help it i do want him to be happy but its going to be hard to see him happy with someone else.. i know he isnt my real love but i do love him maybe it is only caring love right now but that dosnt mean it couldnt turn in to the kind of love i hope to find some day...peace and love...
yes you will love again. Ive been heartbroken a number of times as well unfortunately......but it just takes time. Youll find someone else soon enough that will make you just as if not more happy than anything youve ever come across. --And will everyone please stop telling this girl that shes incapable of falling in love just cuz shes 17. That is so not true......
I didn't say she was incapable, merely that it was more likely that she was confusing infatuation with love. My ex was 27 and he didn't know the difference! There will always be those who learn the difference at a young age and those who learn much much later. From her post, she was describing infatuation versus love. I am worried about my relationship with my current boyfriend b/c sometimes I want to make sure that we are in love and not infatuated. He has been married before and chose poorly to put in nicely. He stayed in the marriage b/c he felt sorry for her. I want to make sure that we really do love each other and aren't together b/c of infatuation. One way that I can tell its real love is that we fight but we can both admit our fault and apologize about the mean things that are said. Plus, when I am easily irratated I would rather leave the room than leave him. He gets manic and REALLY annoying but most people's standards. No matter how psychotic he gets, I am not going to leave him. That's how I know. Peace & love
okay so you say that is love thats how i felt i never lied to him everytime i smoked pot(he dosnt like it) i told him, i never lied to him and i trust him that he's never lied to me...but thanks everyone...peace and love
