Wife not a virgin

When I got married, the first time, I was a virgin, and my bride gave me every reason to believe that she was, too, though she never said it in exact words.

A few years later, she threw it up to me, during an argument, that I had not been the first man to fuck her, which totally devastated me. It took me a long time to even begin to adjust to the reality that lots of other men had had their cocks in my wife's pussy!

The only way I finally began to recover from this situation was to start sharing her with other men, myself. I found that I was beyond jealousy when another guy fucked her, then came to tell me about it. I quickly became known, in our small circle of friends, as "the guy that will let you fuck his wife!" Needless to say, my circle of friends quickly grew.

I found that I was so much happier then, and better adjusted, actively sharing my wife's naked body with other men, rather than sitting home and crying my nuts off while moaning to myself "they're fucking her! They're fucking my wife!" as I had done before.

I've been on both sides of this, and believe me, I would much rather be the husband who shares his wife with other men, than the guy who suffers from the fact that it is happening.

 

LoL

 

Sounds like you made your peace with being a cuckold.

 

I can't find any logic in the original post....wtf. So, you and your wife never discussed whether or not she was a virgin, then you freaked out when you found out she wasn't? How does letting her fuck other men help you deal with that, exactly? I have nothing against your lifestyle if that's what you both decide is right for your marriage, but your reason behind it makes zero sense to me.

 

Virginity is over rated and rather like a balloon at a party, one little prick and it is all over.

 

^^^ haha.

I have a theory about OP. I think he's into the doormat thing. Ya know, the whole being slapped and told he's a pathetic puppy. Which is probably what he's fishing for in this thread.

 

my wife wasn't a virgin but I didn't have to teach her anythiing LoL

 

Me neither...

Just this is quite strange: 'When I got married, the first time, I was a virgin, and my bride gave me every reason to believe that she was, too' - so this is his second wife?

'rather than sitting home and crying my nuts off while moaning to myself "they're fucking her! They're fucking my wife!" as I had done before.' - so his second wife was having multiple affairs?

So, his second wife was having multiple affairs so he is now happy he is sharing his wife and the men tell him about it?

Bizarre!

You couldn't make this kinda thing up!

 

Maybe he likes that his (2nd?) wife fucks other men, and pretending to hate it makes it more socially acceptable in his eyes?

I'm also confused on what he wanted to accomplish by making a thread about it. Sympathy? Was he ranting? I mean he did post in "Free Love," so.... \_(''.)_/

 

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Son of John

Other men who have seen wife naked.
I have a question! Do others think it would be possible to be friends with another man if you knew he had seen your wife naked, in non-nudist club settings.

In my own case, this happened when we had house-guests and the other man walked into a room where my wife was changing. She was totally naked at the time. She told me about it first, and admitted she had been so surprised that it was a few seconds before she could cover herself, but insisted she was sure he had seen "very little".

The friend, himself, was most apologetic to me and insisted he hadn't planned to "look at her". He was genuinely embarrassed by the whole thing and I did believe that he hadn't planned for it to happen. He also seemed to have the need to get past his guilt, so I encouraged him to talk about it, and I knew then by what he told me that he had, indeed, seen "everything", and that he had even let himself look a bit longer than would have been necessary.

So, I was left with the certain knowledge that this "other man" had indeed seen my wife totally naked, and for a sufficient time to see what she really looked like without her clothes.

I will post later about how I handled this, and what happened to our friendship, but first I woud like to know if any others have had similar experiences.

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=315838&f=402

He didn't say how this impacted on his friendship with the man - but I presume - over time - he let him have sex with his wife.

He seems quite keen on masturbation. So I presume it was for masturbation purposes.
I'm not sure with whom he will be masturbating with though : /

 

I would venture to guess, at home alone while using his own tears as lube. :bigcry:

 

https://www.************/pages/Cryi...-tears-for-lube-to-masturbate/266628516687449
Dont be ashamed, we have all done it......

 

Hahaha! I'm a little sad that I didn't think of creating that facebook page first.

 

All the women I've been with have been thoroughly experienced, which is just the way I like it. The only virgins I've had sex with have been male - also just the way I like it. There can be an extra kick available from taking a guy through his first Gay experience, even though it usually leads to Premature Ejaculation from over excitement (which is why I always advise them to masturbate a few hours beforehand).

 

I wouldn't cry about it - well, maybe you should :devil:

 

Lol!

 

Rather unorthodox, to say the least.
I mean, whatever the root of this perceived problem is or that you had with her not being a virgin, it certainly won't be solved by parading her around to other men and letting them fuck her.
That just makes no sense.

Really, when push comes to shove, the only thing she perhaps did wrong was neglecting to tell you she was a virgin.
Outside of that, it's her choice and she obviously chose to have sex with previous partners.

 

your wife sounds terrible. fucked another dude. lied then used it on you in an argument later. and now she gets to fuck other men because you're insecure.

ya sounds like king (queen?) bitch-shit to me. She sure is happy.