My wife told me about an ex she dated for a few years that was a bit of a toxic relationship. They broke up but they kept seeing each other for about a year after until she met me. On another occasion during a conversation about that relationship she basically said that it just became about sex and nothing else basically saying that they didn’t have a deeper connection and that’s the only reason they kept going back to each other. Then in another separate conversation I randomly asked her what was the biggest dick she’s experienced, I’m below average in that department so didn’t expect it to be me, and she said that the biggest was ‘over 9 inches’ and ‘thicker than her wrist’. Expecting this to be a one night stand or something I asked her when/who that was and she became really awkward and wouldn’t say until she eventually revealed that it was this same guy she’d been dating ‘just for sex’. Now the thought of his massive dick pounding her consumes me with jealousy but it’s strangely a big turn on too. Anyone had something similar happen to them?
I'm extremely turned on knowing my wife has had many larger cocks than mine. At one time it would of made me jealous , but with age I have accepted the fact I am small .
One of the friends I see has a boyfriend that is wonderfully endowed. She does love laying back and taking him but obviously (by the fact that I see her too) a big one doesn't mean the only one. I'm not small by any means but not as large as him and I've seen pics. Still, she like big but she likes variety.
I know a couple that got into threesomes for that reason. The husband found out from a third party, by accident, that the ex had a huge cock. After being together a few years never knowing. But once he found out he was obsessed, with finding a man with a bigger dick to do his wife. And yes she loved it, even joked, that he finds them and she f---ed them.
The other way for me, my wife had only been with one guy before and when she saw my penis hard she said something like "oh jesus that'll never go in" That's a boost for self confidence when you are losing your virginity I can tell you!
My wife and I had a mfm with a stud who had a 9" cock and his visits lasted over 18 months when he then moved over the ditch to Aussie. Our meetings were full on and we did almost anything a mfm could do. I can honestly say that period of all-out sex was the most erotic of my rutting life and I was pleasantly surprised how involved my wife became. She is both small in height and with silky, taught skin typical of Asian women yet she managed to take all those inches easily! Those were the days. My wife also was very vocal during sex so don't let anyone say size makes no difference when it comes to a hung stud, they are only trying not to offend their chosen partner or hubby. Size is not everything but women do appreciate those extra inches.
For what it’s worth… We are nudist and in the “Lifestyle”. We see all shapes and sizes of genitalia. That said, I’ve had tight vagina’s and I have been told by other men that my wife has a tight vagina and they have bigger cocks than me. It really is about her level of arousal and primal heat. We play together so I see my wife take a big one often. They usually cum too quickly. It’s not always about a big one but more about variety. She wants me to reclaim her as soon as possible. She likes big one’s but it’s not everything to her.
Six months after my wife and I were married her ex came to town on business. She is in the same business and found out he was in town, she set up a meeting. She and I were having threesomes with men and women at the time, and I had known about this guy, his behavior was rather jerkish, but she wanted him so I gave in. After we took turns with her for close to an hour she was taking a break when he chuckled and said to me, “I heard you like cock”. Without a word I moved towards him and began sucking his cock. He ended up fucking me as well, the whole time he was kind of a jerk about it all, but it was a great night.
Seems like in this case you got what you wanted, jerkish or not he seems like an exceptable third to try and satisfy you both.
My wife's first lover in college had a penis thicker than mine, and she liked it even though she didn't really care for the guy. Her last lover in a one-night stand was a 65 year old Russian with a really big cock and good skills. She says she thinks of the Russian's cock when she uses her toys, but that is the only time. I don't have any jealous thoughts about either guy.
My spouse tells me I'm the largest she's ever had. Since she feels this way I don't question if it's the truth or not.
I know what you mean, and exactly how you feel. About 12 years ago my wife had an affair with a coworker. I seen a picture of his cock that he sent her, and he was larger than I. It made me insanely jealous and yet I found it a turn on thinking there was a kinky side to her that I had not yet discovered. Also made me feel inadequate which further drove the afore mentioned. I found these reactions to be driven by myself and I was making connections that were not there. My advice is to just focus on the present and try to leave the past behind, which isn’t always easy, but you’ll find as time goes on that monster does not have the teeth it once did.
My wife was much the same way, but didn't enjoy all, some guys just lacked basic skills, or never got really hard.
Wife told me she'd had many cocks, she was a busy little beaver, she'd fucked all sizes but enjoyed the larger cocks the most. She continued to fuck other men when we first met but became exclusive to me only after we became a couple then married. Not long after I asked her if she missed the thrill and excitement of fucking new men and she replied "sometimes" but she was happy and devoted to me and wouldn't go behind my back for sex. I asked her what if i wanted to watch her fuck another man with a big cock would she do it? She thought about it for several minutes then got a big smile on her face, laughingly said absolutely! She stated she'd give me the best sex show I've ever seen, but we have to agree with each others choices for her to fuck and then we preceded to set up rules and guidelines for our new lifestyle together.
