can't i ever like the nice guy? it's not fair, there'll be a really great, sweet, guy that likes me but i wont like him. whyyyy?!!! i want to know that exact question. i always want that guy who treats me like dirt and totally ignores me though, i wish i didn't...all i end up doing is moping about how this guy doesn't like me and even if he started to i probably would end up not likeing him anymore anyway because that's how stupid i am. ah, i hate myself. ana was right, i don't give anyone a chance. blah. im a horrible person, no one should like me...im a jerk.
Maybe the nice guys are dull... Soon as you meet an exciting nice guy you might find you like him. Love yourself unconditionally, and don't compromise, define in your mind as best you can what is most important, and what is absolutely mandatory, and follow your heart. The more special one is, the harder it is to click. If someone shows you disrespect, just move on, it isn't worth it, and you deserve better. Bad boys are exciting, like Vegas, but the novelty wears off after a while.
ahh thanks for the advice. im soo stupid. he's not dull though that's the problem, he's really sweet...i just met him thursday and i saw him tonight and it was niceee because he just picked up his guitar and was like "lisa when i got home i wrote a song about you" and he started playing (no he didnt actually write a song, that would've been creepy--he just changed letters to you in the song to letters to lisa). this guy that im totally whipped over ignores the hell outta me, and just thinks im some lame high school girl probably. argh. i mean NOTHING to this guy, but i want him sooo bad. why can't i have the nice guy for once?!...its so hard to move on!
maybe you want whats harder to get. when you know you can have a guy you are faced with whether you are ready to be serious with him, because you know you can have him there is no mystery. you feel the need to have some freedom... but someday you might be ready to have someone you know is devoted to you? a ramble, but maybe there is some truth in there?
I figure you just don't get to know them enough as there's more than meets the eye... with some... I don't know, then again, some people are just shallow and it's typically needs vs. wants...
just become a monk for a few years, than kick the ass of any guy wh mistreats you until he obeys your every command, if theirs anything we've learned from final fantasy it's that monks pwn
all girls generally like the really fucked up guys. well, maybe not ALL, but, heheh, usually applies to me...
Because being the "bad boy" usually means you do things your own way. This is taken as being strong, assertive, showing that you're in charge, saying fuck it to other people and proving your dominance. Chicks dig that. It's old-fashioned caveman shit, you're showing yourself to be the Alpha Male, you're cooler and more badass than others. Also more exciting, chicks dig that too. Ready to take chances, spontaneity, able to risk it all and win big. Risk is exciting, especially when you want more excitement and passion in your life. Probably a lot to do with evolution, women want a man who will assert himself and is strong enough to take risks and show others who's boss. It's not all about who's the strongest to be an Alpha Male. Showing that you're the coolest around and ready to do your own thing is a good trait in many ways. Lot's of good studies have been done in this area, it seems that the assertiveness and power angles come into play pretty widely. Can't help millions of years of evolution. The ego is just a surface thing, underneath all that we have vast pools of instinct that are responsible for many of our actions and feelings. A heart and brain disconnect I guess.
