Why would young women date older men?

To mirror the thread why would older women date younger men, there seems to be the opposite end of that scale that's also popular. A lot of younger women are attracted to older men and I'm sure there are various reasons for it, but I'd like to hear some of them.

 

The most obvious i money. You see young women today on YouTube or Instagram, taking about finding men twice their age, with lots of money and willing to put them in their wills in exchange for sex and partnership.

 

Money, the promise of security; not all that concerned about having sex with him which frees her up to have sex with others, with or without his permission. Some have deeply seated daddy issues and some just don't believe that a man their own age is... really man enough to deal with her, willing and able to treat her right, so on and so forth because older men tend to be more laid back than our younger counterparts.

Just recalling stuff I've heard repeated by women who throw shade at a young woman who wants to take up with a man old enough to be her father.

 

Sugar Daddy, or Papa-Katsu, as he'd be called in Japan. Someone willing to spend his money on her, unconcerned about amounts, old enough to have pull and bail her out when shit hits the fan, and young enough to drive her to Walmart in his Maserati.

 

I'm sure it looks a bit selfish and creepy to other women who are with men their own generation but people will talk no matter what you do. If she took up with a guy young enough to be her son they'd look down on her for that too.. But Younger women suck. Users and gold diggers. There I said it and that opinion came from me, and a general statement.

 

Blow. just a lot of freakin blow

 

We may have the wisdom, but not all of use have the tolerance to start dealing with the shenanigans of a 20-something, or even a 30-something woman anymore ...
"Been there, done that, rode the ride, ate the ice cream, and all i have to show is a head full of gray hair and this stupid t-shirt."
The baggage that came with 30 year old woman, back when i was 30 are much different than the baggage of today's 30 year old, looking for financial support from a partner.

 

Amen brother

 

I know that I'd barely have the patience to deal with a woman who is as old as one of my grandchildren. The thing I'm very likely to ask is, "What's in this for me?" - and then sit back and watch the youngster try to answer the question. And maybe trying to play a playa, which would be a huge mistake since I was playing this game before she was born. And just offering sex... ain't gonna cut it.

 

Now, having said all of that, consider that a lot of women think that younger guys are all undisciplined jerks who don't have a lot going for them but they want to be in a loving relationship and if the young and dumb ones are undesirable, there are the guys who are their age but that could be taking a gamble. Older guys, at the very least, have life experience, are usually more settled down and other things that a younger woman could very well find is her cup of tea and she wants to be with him... because he's who he is and the love she feels toward him is real and genuine.

Not all women who'd date an older man is a money-grubbing skank...

 

The minute she strikes a pose and motions down her body and says, "All of this Baby." She would be taking a walk. Don't matter what she looks like. There is not a woman in the world who can answer that question if I asked it. And if by a slim margin there is, well she doesn't live in these United States, Canada or Mexico. She may live in Japan, or some Southeast Asian nation, but I'm not holding my breath.

 

There are 3 women in my life like that. And it took years of them getting to know me for them to feel like family, and that they know me on good days and on my worst days and are still here. They aren't blood related. I me them in 1990, 2 are like sisters and 1 is like a niece. We've shared houses. Me giving them a home when they needed one, and vice versa. One of them I saw through college. drove 300 miles round trip every weekend to get an update on how things were going. No, I'm pretty sure I don't have it in me to let someone learn me that well, again. She'd have to be amazing from jump street before I'd even consider giving her a chance. One wrong comment, one stray assumption and i'd end it.

How many women do you think you can find to sit at a coffee shop with you for 8 hours and talk about nothing and not get bored. How many women half your age do you think understand obscure TV and movie references from the 60's and 70's?
How many women of that age do you think there are that are REAL readers, who can quote your favorite authors? I don't need a yes woman who will coddle and placate me. I need one that will understand and converse on my level while explaining her era to me without condescension.

 

i prefer older guys but i cant really say why, more mature and hotter tho

 

Us older men know how to take our time when it comes to pleasure oral or other.

 

;-)

 

One of my friends is quite a bit younger. She wants experience and she wants an understanding that it's a date...not a lifetime. She also wants what her husband won't do. That part is personal but it's also what makes her fun. We're all different.