Why would you say no to sex?

LISTEN to suger,'bird....that is good advice,babe.

Remember-ALL humans have faults,angel.

 

Okay, thanks. The pain does scare me!

 

Okay

 

The pain was e best part for me but I doubt you will be into that lol

 

It will depend also wether your boyfriend has a big penis or not & if you are large or small (vagina entrance) or if you tense up too much, he may not be able to enter you either. You may or may not feel any pain - you may be a more fortunate one? JUST TAKE YOUR TIME & DON'T LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY YET IF YOU DON"T WANT TO?

 

Well I don't really know how big my entrance is, it just looks like a little hole to me, like the size of a dime maybe. and my boyfriend has a good size penis.
I guess I will find out sooner or later.

 

No rush,'bird.

Once that deed is done,there's no going back.

Be certain,sweetheart-it's a gift you can give only once.....

 

Yes, it is like a gift isn't it! I hope I make the right decision.

 

If you are adventourous, (?) try relaxing & placing one or two fingers inside yourself & see how it feels - it shouldn't hurt you unless you tense up thru stressing out about it? You just may enjoy doing that occassionally & it will make you less uneasy about intercourse.
Because you get very wet anyway, you have more chance of enjoying playing with yourself. You use a vibrator on your clitorus, so just try touching your vagina with it as well - you may get so aroused that you insert it in slightly & without any pain - it's worth a try ?

 

Me too-but I have faith in you to know when/if the person is 'The One'.
After all-you wouldn't be here asking about this if you were 100% certain,poppet.
Which tells you you're NOT yet certain.

 

Was wondering this too. Ahhhh the power of punctuation and the English language used correctly...

 

Okay, I may just try that, just a little though, not too far!

NZ, you sound like an expert! Sometimes I feel like I'd rather lose my Virginity with an older man,someone with lots of experience and knows what he's doing, so I'm treated with the up most care.

Does that sound strange ?

 

Your correct, I'm not certain, I'm scared. But I will know when the time is right.

 

Not at all! Most things go more smoothly with a good teacher

 

Well that's kind of what I was thinking. I want my first time to be so awesome.
I don't just want it to be a 10 min thing where I don't even orgasm.

 

Well,it's your body,your pussy,so YOU decide what,who,where and when.

Just be patient-after all,if you REALLY have made it this far,what's the sudden rush,'bird?

 

There's no rush, I just read about others having sex and squirting, gspots etc, and I so badly want to try it.

 

I lost my virginity but I still have the box it came in

 

Sometimes I wish I was still a virgin. U should loose it to another virgin it's cute that way and I think more special after that then u go skank it up with more experienced folks

 

It may to your other female friends but an older (experienced) guy should treat you gently & make sure you got to enjoy it more than just fast sex & no enjoyment at all. You are the one who should say what he can & can't do, it's your virginity not his! Yes I admit, I'd love to have sex with a much younger woman who I could show a few new things (sexually) that would make her go from dry to wet in minutes. intercourse doesn't need to happen at all - just touching her everywhere else can soon stimulate her enough to make her start dribbling from her vagina. Even not touching her clitorus can still make her aroused. I've been married for 29 yrs & still want to try different things but it all depends on what the reciever allows and doesn't. Does it make you very wet when you give your boyfriend oral or you get aroused in some other way? You have experienced somethings I haven't & I have that you haven't. So we are both learning regardless of ages. If you enjoy using the vibrator internally, then the wetter you get, the further you may want to insert it. That's set you a challenge now !
Get the most from your $'s you spent on your vibrator & just enjoy every pleasurable second you can !!!!!! If you push it in as far as you can handle, the more your find your sensations may just love it.
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