And she insists that it's not because she's unsatisfied with either guy. I think my thing is just that I really don't wanna see her as a slut, and I'm just hoping I'm not wrong.
Wicked Attention Whore, would probably be more accurate. For chicks it's generally less about the sex and more about attention. It's just that sex is usually the way to get the attention.
Well hey, if she's happy, and if her boyfriends are happy, then who cares, right? It that works for them, then it does. Different folks, different strokes.
I don't know man. She may just like both of you a lot and find it super hard to say good bye to one. She probably just doesn't feel the need to do that when she know's she'll be missing the one she cut's out of the picture and will most cheat with them anyway. But hey at least she's being honest. What are you gonna do?
if it works for the three of them... more power to them! people differ in their needs. nothing cause more harm, then a 'one size fits all' mentality. the pages of human history are bloodstained by those who have that mind set.
Honestly and rationally, I see it as she is poor at finding guys that meet her full needs. More philosophically, it's their relationships; not your business.
She could pull the whole, "When im with you, i'm a completely different person than I am with him. I like both sides of who I am with both of you..." Hoe-bag. Be the smarter person and step out while you can, you're not gonna have smooth sailing in the future if you don't. I mean think about it, "heyy babe, wanna go out to dinner tonight?" "ohh im sorry! i have a date with my other boyfriend!" If you let her get away with it, you have a serious problem. a serious Love problem , heh
I remember talking to a girl that had 2 boyfriends. Of course this is a temporary situation and the girl usually picks 1 of them or none. I had a conversation with this girl and she told me about a couple of different guys and the qualities she liked in those guys but no one was perfect. This girl came off as mean spirited and needy. She was friends with this guy lets call him Ned, then Ned brings her to hang out with some people one day and she takes a liking to a guy we'll call Kyle. Ned of course really likes her but she thinks it a good idea to date one of his good friends. Kyle is host to all the tripping adventures and is constantly interrupted by the girl calling him whenever he is with his friends and needing him to come babysit her through an MDMA experience or some shit. This girl is very defensive. Okay I'm not sure where I'm going with this but the point is... cool chicks do not have 2 boyfriends. The girl is insecure and not ready for a deep relationship.
she could be getting sex from one and resources from the other which ultimately makes her a manipulative, using, whore
My thoughts exactly. Boyfriend #1 great in bed but not very wealthy. Does everything she desires, hits the right spots and treats her like an absolute Goddess. Boyfriend #2 not brilliant in bed but lavishes her with expensive stuff all the time. Goes on exotic holidays, new cars, jewellery, clothes, bags, shoes, whatever she could possibly wish for and more. So... she gets everything, the great sex and all the expensive jewellery, clothing she could ever want. It's definitely manipulative and quite frankly, greedy but lets face it, it's an easy way of getting exactly what you want out of a man!
my girlfriend had a nother girlfriend--cool with me---i knew chicks with 2 or more boyfriends all knew about each other---monogamy is over rated--i had a number of girlfriends my fave plus some sluts---what happened to free love you all? when trying to be honest we had code word---man i need a break that meant all was cool although my number one was still my no 1-----peace to all who can remain faithful--sadly im not one of them
Interesting question. I'm probably gonna kick the shit out of Peter. That'll make the other guy crumple. Then she'll be mine again.
Haha... this reminds me of a dream I had where I discovered I like somehow accumulated 4 boyfriends, and then realized I didn't like any of them ROTFL!!!! Ah... those silly dirty whore dreams How I love em.