So far so weird... I just got into an argument with my dad, but instead of words it only took about a minute and half to jump right into physical confrontation. I really didn't want to get into this stupid argument. I know I'm growing up and everything, but one rule that stands clear to me is that no one and I mean no one puts they're hands on me... He crossed that line by putting his fist up against my head indicating that he wished he could of punched me. As soon as we stood up to began fighting my mom got in between us and I walked away while they were trying to call me back in the room and didn't want to go back into the room because I was already done with all of this B.S. I've been trying for a very long time to make the tension go down in the house, but its not my fault...he provoked me. Every time I thought of what I could have done to him right then and there made me twitch and wish that I could rewind it back to five minutes ago. Of course right now all I'm doing is crying because I really didn't want to argue about any of the things we argued about. I'm just sick of him trying to act like he's always right because I will always usually be the one to tell him he's wrong. Now I have sit here and my room and try to calm down for tonight and talk to him in the morning. I know I was wrong to take it far but he crossed that line and I in the most stupidest way to waste my energy proving what would happen to him if he ever crossed that line again with me. I'm not really mad at all it's just that now I really need to talk to Jesus because I don't want to upset him so i'll apologize for him(sorry if you don't care about that part i'm religious so lick my big toe)
You a chick? Either way, no matter what he tries telling you maintain your dignity. Boy or Girl, he really shouldn't be holding a fist up to your face, especially by his age, if he has something real and genuine to say, he should be able to back it up with reason, not physical violence. I would of done the same thing. My dad always started shit with me too and I just didn't bother. It was irrational, he had other problems, I walked off. Be above that shit. Not hitting him back and not saying a word unless it's in your own truthful defense is the highest road you can take in this situation. Best of luck.
wwJd?? He'd use a TAZER... Of course if jesus used a tazer on his dad, His dad might retaliate with lightning and then there would be no.:xmastree:
IMO, he is your father, and should NOT be threatening you with violence.To hold a fist up to your child's face is very very wrong. Your father should also be your teacher in life, what does this say? if there is a situation you cant handle, use your fists? no no. Is there no way you two can just sit and talk? I think he needs to know how you are feeling.I get on extremely well with my dad, I always have, part of the reason is that we can talk calmly about things, give it a try. good luck.
