Why the hell do men say stuff they shouldn't?

Honestly! it's like nothing we say as women about thinking before you say something gets through to them.



if your bf is smart and thinks, i congratulate you.

 

Sorry this did not make sense.

I take it you are having b/f trouble?

 

when a topic is brought up that is know to bring about horrible memories via making a joke about it, and not a tasteful one (though i don't believe you can make a tasteful joke about molestation) then women have EVERY right to be upset.

 

sorry, when i'm upset, i babble. it made sense in my head.

 

Some women should come with subtitles.

 

Are you my bf? I swear he would say something EXACTLY like this if I asked him why he says shit without thinking. Haha

 

i lol'd.

 

No worries. I think you might be brushing all men with the same brush, perhaps. I'd dump your b/f...and find a better one.

 

lol i know i never could. he just says shit without thinking. i'm so fucking pissed tho aghhh

 

What did he say? If I can ask.

 

well, when i was 10 (mind you, i'm being trusting without just cause here) my father molested me. plain and simple. i dont talk about it, and i sure as hell dont JOKE about molestation. We were having a pillow fight, and he said, "i'm the molester, i'm comming to molest you" in a goofy voice. WTF. he KNOWS that's a sensitive spot.

 

doubtful.

 

Hmm... since you're 17 I'm willing to guess he's not so much like a 'man' but a 'boy'... and that would be the issue.

 

Aww.. Well truthfully, I'm sure he didn't mean it in that way, you know what I mean? It was a pillow fight and he was probably just in the moment and didn't realize what he said. Did he realize what he said afterwards?


Still, what I said doesn't really answer why guys dont think when they say shit haha.

 

That doesn't sound like a 'man' issue, it sounds like the guy is just retarded in general.

 

he"s turning 19 tomorrow. but you have a valid point, for the age he's turning, he acts more like his shoe size. (whatever the hell that is lol)

 

Iv'e Never Known A Man To Speak Without Thinking First.

I Always Thought That Was Exclusivly A Womans Domain...

..................................................(runs for cover as the

bullets whistle overhead)...



Cheers Glen.

 

he just sounds young and dumb... it's natural.

 

yeah. he feels really shitty, and he almost cried when i was so upset i started sniffling. god i hate it when i do that lol. idk what to do as of now, i'm really mad, and he's out on the futon staring into space with a look of horror on his face.

 

Never say never

Fair enough. But life seems too short to have to deal with that...and be a little cautious if he will be saying anything in the future "as a joke".