Why Straight Guys Have Sex With Straight Guys

I Don't Think So......I See It As A Discussion About Something That Has Been "Up My Nose" For

Many Years........ie...Guys That "Have It Off" With Other Guys.....And Still Refer To Themselves

As "Straight"......Sorry Guys.....That Just "Doesn't Cut It" With Me.....When You Suck Off Your Best Mate.....

"Straight" Goes Out The Window......Stop Lying To Yourself.....YOUR BI......



Cheers Glen.

 

Maybe you're referring to the brojob which lot's of younger guys do for a friend but otherwise lead quite a straight life. In truth sexuality is a continuum and we're all flexible given the right set of circumstances.

 

^brojob

 

Yes "brojob" a word used to describe when an otherwise straight guy sucks his friends cock .

 

You are not gardamn straight if you are sucking off other dudes

 

Yes you are! There's nothing wrong with doing your bro a favor. Doesn't mean you're into cocks. You don't have to enjoy it.

 

Straight-Bi-Gay...Who cares. I enjoy sucking cock & eating pussy. I have an emotional attachment with women, I have an obsession for cock with a guy. I suck cock because I enjoy doing it and providing him pleasure the same as eating a pussy and providing her pleasure. Label me what you wish as it means little to me. I do what I do because I enjoy doing it.

 

No one gives a shit.

 

Labels are bullshit. It’s just sex, be it straight, bi, fay or lesbian. It’s people feeling good with each other. I don’t see what the big deal is. It’s social brainwashing. We’re expected to conform to the social rules and regulations set Fort for us all and if we stray from those we’re considered misfits. I say fuck society and those whom judge. Be happy, have fun and enjoy all life has to offer. Just keep it legal and consensual

 

words that represent things have the unique ability to allow us to communicate verbally. this thread wouldn't have really meant anything if it was "why bullshit label has bullshit label with bullshit label."

 

Or, if thread title was "Why guys have sex with guys"

What assumptions would Topher1972 himself have about the thread before entering it.

People thar say labels are bullshit always stereotype and use labels themselves

 

Very interesting Abd Infirnative article. The reason fir the whole discussion I guess / obviously is the unfortunate unequal view of societies acceptance I guess on mm v ff as stated . This is the reason I keep things of this nature in my life very private & discreet though I don’t Find sone of the subcultures as appealing I must admit though admit I find it a pity people can’t just BE without just being their selves when in their enjoyable state doing what they enjoy - without the judgement of others - from all sides. This I guess also creates the taboo and that also is a huge part of the turn on and the melding of cultures creating a kink in itself I find- being a Straight masculine type - enjoy sexual encounters with other similar type guys occasionally / in between & amongst full time m/f ltr. I find masculine - straight type men the most appealing to play with and watch in porn ( opposed to twink/ queen/ fem types)& women who express their favouritism to the scenario either as a mixed combo or watching mm porn/ activities as very arousing - due to the taboo again - what’s deemed as unacceptable by some or frowned upon by general mainstream ( though can be so rewarding if those involved are sexually and emotionally compatible to the situation ) this , the fact that it’s sex and pleasurable and that I’m a very active participant in what’s not quite a taboo ( in my mind ) & that I’m generally a welcomed and proven performer - with others you’d not normally associate ‘on general perceotion’ With this scenario... is all a big airy of the complicated, very involved, somewhat contradiction filled, at times risky on some levels, very often misunderstood, and hard to understand by those not in favour of - or involved in - the act of m-m sexual encounters between guys generally living as straight white males ( or BI at most / fluid in fact ) tgay can be as hit and miss as any mf encounter or activity shared with anyone who’s got a subjective opinion or ability
Anyway... that’s what I think right now

 

The question is: "Why do straight guys have sex with straight guys?"
Then the discussion turns into the meaning of the word "straight".
The question assumes straight guys can have sex with straight guys. The question asks "why".
Plenty of people here think it's possible. It would be erotic to hear their reasoning.

 

That a large part of the discussion goes on about the definition of straight seems logical. You have straight men, bisexual men and gay men. It's arguable all 3 can be defined as bisexual: some simply are on the far end of the spectrum (gay or straight) and some somewhere between (bisexual). But it's clear men who identify as straight and crave or have sex with women but also crave or have sex with men are bisexual, and if they put it on an internet forum that they're actually straight they will be uhm set straight on that

 

I set it up for her, I asked for a taste when she got wet, it was enjoyable, she liked seeing me suck her black lovers cock !

 

Why? I’m not seeing any answers to why. I was young when it started but felt secure that our secret would remain a secret. When I first did this it was for the pleasure I received from him, after years it became gratifying to give him pleasure.

 

All of this is wrapped up in some males homophobic need to preserve their chauvinistic sense of masculinity and heteronormativity.
I've had sex with males and females, and felt strong attraction and affinity for some of them.
I never give a moment's thought as to whether or not I'm Straight, Gay, or somewhere in between, and don't really care about other's thoughts on my sexuality. However, given the implicit value judgements and prejudices implied by someone's need to label me, when people do feel compelled to judge me, it informs my decision whether to value their opinion or not.

Think of what we could create in the world if we worried less about who we (or others) give or receive pleasure with and what that means, but instead at least tried to focus for a moment upon our predilections for selfishness and cruelty, and what that means?

 

I identify myself as bi. I’ve never been romantically attracted by to men at all. I’ve just like to suck a cock now and then. I love women and only ever been romantically attracted to them. I’m happily married and enjoy sex with my wife. The only reason I identify as bi is that’s how other people label me. Really labelling a persons sexuality can be hurtful and inaccurate. The world would be a better place without them.

 

Correct