Why men don’t flirt with woman at nude beaches??

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  1. OpenCouple1212

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    I have had many men check me out at nude beaches but don’t come talk to me or my husband, why??
     
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  2. Biggles_Nude!

    Biggles_Nude! Hakuna matata.

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    Because your husband is there, I suspect. It's common at my nude beach for women to be approached, striking up a conversation and generally socialising, and yes, checking each bod out. At night is when things get more interesting, with several women cruising for guys. They then bolt into the dunes and into the darkness.
     
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  3. Ace65

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    I've never been to a nude beach so I don't know what goes on there. But I'm not an outgoing kind of person and I would never go approach a woman anyway. I just do my checking out from a distance and that's where it ends.
     
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    I would be more than happy to approach you on a nude beach, that's the joy of going and meeting new and interesting people, especially like in any other non nude place the attractive females like yourself
     
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  5. OpenCouple1212

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    Nice comments get you everywhere!
     
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  6. MasseurNaturel

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    I'll happily approach a couple and flirt if it's obvious they don't mind being approached. All depends on the reaction you and your husband give to being checked out. Flirting is fun, never know what it may lead to.
     
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  7. Amontillado

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    You're trying to sound benign about something that a lot of women would call harassment.

    A while ago I heard about how women who want to go to Haulover Beach in Miami got so annoyed by the male attention that they moved to the north end of the beach where the gay guys go. And once they understood what was happening, the men there politely welcomed them and then left them alone.
     
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  8. OpenCouple1212

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    We love Haulover
    We sit near the bar—que food truck is....
     
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  9. Amontillado

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    Well then--can a woman go to Haulover and just have a quiet time?
     
  10. OpenCouple1212

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    Of course you can have a quiet time.... sit away from more populated areas
    In my opinion it’s very laid back but I wish it wasn’t
    Have a great thanksgiving!!!
     
  11. OpenCouple1212

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    I really would like to see you without the briefs!!!
     
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  12. NudeDavid19

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    I would be too shy to approach a woman... :coldsweat:
     
  13. Panama Jack

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    I have never been to a nude beach, but recently my wife and I went to a nude resort twice. I am not a flirt to begin with. I respect privacy. At the resort we had times in the pool and club house to do small talk. We are not out to do hook ups, If we were, I’m sure it would be different.
     
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    I am visiting the Haulover each weekend now, just tell me how to find you, I will be glad to have some company there.
     
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    It varies from place to place. Flirting at all at a beach that is family-oriented or that attracts a large number of people over age 60, and many clothing-optional beaches check both of those boxes, is relatively rare. People look at each other, of course. I look. However, they don't go to such a beach to find a dinner date.

    Flirting at other clothing-optional beaches, where a large proportion of those visiting are young, physically fit, and there primarily for exhibitionist or voyeuristic purposes (specifically to see or bee seen) is more common.

    As far as the whole idea of "nude beaches" goes, it seems an uninformed question. I've never been to a beach that required nudity, one that prohibited clothing, although there probably are some. Beaches where nudity is permitted are usually "clothing optional," or "nudity permitted," where each person wears as much or as little as that person is comfortable with.

    Many couples are made up of one nudist and one non-nudist, and you will see every combination on a beach. Sometimes, a person is nude and that person's companion is not. Sometimes the kids are nude and the parents are not. Sometimes, the kids are in swimwear, and the parents are nude. A group of 6 friends may include four who are nude and two who are not.

    The idea that everyone is nude, and that only the nude are allowed, is unrealistic. "Nude beach" is largely a misnomer.
     
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    Have gone as solo Male came out of water saw this solo FM said hi and was blown off all good I'm not gay
     
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    I'm married, so no flirting from me.
    I've seen many lovely women I'd like to talk to if I was single, but would likely not do because I wouldn't want to be one of those " creepy single guys" . I DO NOT think that's fair, but that's life.
    I've gone for walks and left my wife alone on the beach and some guys have taken the opportunity to hit on her. She was very flattered.
     
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    I wonder it’s any of them saw you and thought “oh crud, she’s married!” and made a dash to safety, lol.
     
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    One guy was applying lots of sunscreen to himself looking right at her, he stopped every time I looked his way. I looked away, sort of. Wife would have been upset if I stopped him.
     

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