Tight vaginas have a friction and 'grip' the penis better which IME makes me feel each thrust more prounced and allows for better control and rhythm .
I asked my partner, he said he didnt know it just felt right. i would say the tighter i am the more i feel of my partner and I do love to feel him
I think the whole "tightness" is just another superficial concept us Americans created, maybe in a way of demoralizing woman who have sex a lot?. I think to circumcised guys it matters more, but a really tight vagina hurts; and for a vagina to be so loose that it doesn't unseath your foreskin up and down? I don't think that kind of vagina should be having sex at the moment. Anything that's tight enough so you feel something is absolutely perfect. Dare I say the less tight the vagina, the wetter it is?
Old joke: Why do most men like big tits and tight pussies? Because most of them have big mouths and small dicks. C/S, Rev J
yeah but even less experienced women can have super loose pussy. it just depends on their muscle control and how in shape they are
And some of it is also just genetic as well. This is one of those things where multiple factors need to be considered here.
As opposed to what? All vaginas are tight. And when they are being used; they get tighter. It's a sphincter muscle. That's how they work. If it wasn't tight, it'd be prolapsed; and nobody would sex that.
what an odd question. it's like asking, why do many guys prefer to eat cheesecake instead of cow shit? not that i'm comparing a loose pussy to cow shit, but in both cases the answer just seems so obvious that i wouldn't even know how to respond to such a question. i think you're underestimating the desperation of some guys...
When you get to lose your virginity you'll understand. I remember one time when I was having sex & she deliberately started tightening & relaxing her kegal muscles, thus squeezing on my penis with a steady pulsing. It was something that came totally out of the blue & felt so good that I nearly blew my load there & then. It's a similar sensation to when the woman has an orgasm & her muscles go into convulsive spasm, often bringing about a (near) mutual orgasm as a result.
That reminds me of the older guy on a talent show a few years ago who wrote & sung his own song called 'Pants On The Ground'
I feel it tight on initial entry but it loosens up as I go. But then what's really tight? To an average dude one might feel loose and to a dude pushing above average it'd probably feel tighter. It's a stupid topic tbh.
I can't say I have ever experienced a "loose" pussy. I have experienced various different sensations due to size, shape and elasticity differences or that after orgasm some have backed off and only had one that was so tight that penetration took so long I almost gave up altogether. One thing that seems to have evaded this conversation is that the sensation being described is being measured by penis size, which in itself is variable.
Kind of a ridiculous thread. As others have said tighter typically means more friction in which case you feel more. Now I haven't been with hundreds of woman, but I've been with quite a few and here's what I've experienced or learned, and I would consider myself an average to slightly above average guy downstairs (but lets just say average for the sake of things). Bottom line here's the deal... Never been with a woman that was so tight I couldn't fit in Never been with a woman that was so loose that I couldn't feel anything (or neither could she) Been with a few woman who were more naturally lubricated than others (making them easier to enter or looser if you will) Been with woman who were nervous, inexperienced, or naturally dryer than others which made them more difficult to enter (tighter) A woman's emotional state, state of horniness, where they are at in their menstrual cycle can all play into how much natural lube they have or will produce at a given time The term "loose woman" or a woman who's a slut doesn't really mean she's looser down there. Supposedly a woman who has sex more often can actually be tighter as the vaginal muscles get more of a workout which can make them tighter. All in all I don't think it means much either way. A woman who has sex more may have tighter muscles as a result, but at the same time are more broken in and know how to relax and such, so in the end it probably doesn't make any difference Most if not all woman I've been with regardless of overall body height, weight, or nationality I've never noticed that much difference in terms of how they felt inside. On the outside some woman look a bit different, but on the inside I really can't say I've ever noticed much of a difference A woman who's had a baby may make them looser short term, but the vagina shrinks up and becomes normal again within short time For those curious, yes an ass / anal sex is typically tighter than vaginal sex, however it's mainly tighter right at the sphincter muscle / entry point and then if anything looser after. But it is different feeling than a vagina My wife who I've been with for almost 15 years now and I can say there have been times she was super tight and we had to work to get him in, and it was always due to no lube, her not being in the mood, right before her menstrual cycle, etc... And then there have been other times where she's been very loose, typically because we've had a lot of foreplay or she's very horny and very wet or something along those lines. That said if I can avoid using lube I prefer as lube obviously tends to make things more slippery and hence less friction and you feel less
Well articulated KingWilly. Due to my one experience that I referred to I will admit I am not average size (not trying to brag here just want to complete the description) and I am quite certain she was an anomally as far as vagina tightness goes. I had the experience 22 years ago and have had plenty of sex/partners since but I will never forget it as it stands out from everything. Funny enough, she experienced no pain and was quite demanding to make the most out of it. I felt some very unusual discomfort until we got the motion down. It was a very unique experience to say the least.