I met that hot guy and found real connection with him, there is a strong chemistry between us.. I really couldny get my hands off him when I get near to him.. but he traveled today for work and he is gonna stay for 3 weeks there and we arent exclusive yet.. I met another cool guy online who is willing to come and visit me at any time, I found a connection with him.. I dont know I feel Im kinda cheating on the first guy, I know that this is not true as we are in the very beginning.. but I wanna know why I feel this way.. do you girls have any idea?? does this happen to us girls when we have 2 hot guys in our lives or what?? Im really confused!
I think it's just because, we, women, are kind of trained to be stupid, complicate things and feel guilty all the time with things related to our libido. You can accept what society expects of you and go on feeling guilty, or not. I'm commenting based on the fact you say you and the other guy aren't exclusive.
You are correct because I dont think that a guy would have felt that way! And we really complicate things so much and exaggerate them to the extent of driving us crazy..
Yeah, I've felt this way before. And when I do, I consider the conflict of emotion as a way of my inner self telling me which one I like most without my mind rationalizing my feelings out of the picture. After all, relationships and love are meant to be emotionally stimulating for the most part. So I lead with my heart and brain second when it comes to love and relationships. If I were in that position and being with guy 2 hurt my heart because I started to feel like I was cheating on guy 1.. then I would break it off with guy 2 even if things were not exclusive yet. Labels don't mean a whole lot to me.
you should never start up two computer programs at once.. while it may occasionally work., there is chance of conflict, stalling, restarts ect.. ive done to many acorns dont listen to me..
I agree. If it feels like cheating, then you know right there which one you like more. If she liked the second guy more, she'd find a way to justify going out with the second guy without feeling bad.
Did you actually tell guy 1 it wasn't exclusive? Or just imply it? With relationships, direct and clear rules at the start can spare you fights later. And if both guys know, but don't mind, it's not cheating. If you are sneaking around and keeping secrets, that's different.
this is a troll post right? why do females use bullshit terms like "really good connection," & "I get this feeling." You're just fucking horny, and you're feeling guilty 'cuz you're hopping from dick to dick. Man up to the facts and stop sugar-coating like you're some pretty little princess. I don't go around calling my penis and boners The Oracle. FFs. "Sorry honey. I don't know what came over me. We had this great connection. The curve of her boobs just told me, and I had to follow my heart." SERIOUSLY. GO #$#@$##!
