Why has almost every girl or woman...

happened to be raped, molested, or in some way, sexually assualted between the ages of 0-20. Why do the men in their lives have to fuck the world up for people unlike themselves...

I wonder.

Oh wait. Greed, ignorance, and selfishness..aah.. I get it now.

 

Shit happens.

 

True... I say it a lot... but you never hear a whole lot about females raping males... then again, shit happens.

 

cuz males are stupid and should be my man-servants.

 

hmmmmm.... that's not the happiest thing to wonder about.

 

When it comes to men it's just hard to find one that isn't willing...so statistically the odds are probably in favor of them getting raped less.

 

It has been my experience that people with violent behavior, stem from aggressive genes and or their enviromental situation.. I have known men that come from good homes be violent assholes and some ones, that come from disfunctional faimlys be the opposit or vice versa.. so it must come from the genes I think they are throwbacks from the caveman days.. I have been raped three times and was battered pretty bad for several yrs by three different husbands..I did not come from a abusive home nor did any family members rape me.. but I married three abusive men.. I see young women go threw the same shit as I did and I just want it to stop.. if the MEN that didn't go for other men abusing women.. and it was NOT accepted and swept under the table.. the MEN of the tribe would get rid of the attacker one way or the other..I say death to them.. funny ( not funny but u know what I mean) but all three of my x's are dead.. 1st one got killed in Nam.. second one died of drugs yrs after I left him.. third killed hisself on the VA drugs..the one I have now would not hit or abuse me in any way.. I think I'll let him live...(J/K)

 

reply to shameless:
it's weird that you would say it comes from an aggressive gene, for my grade 12 university english course i wrote my ISP on violence and how it is genetic. not that it gets passed down through certain genes, but that it is part of our dna. I compared it to cancer, every one carries the cancer/anger cells and thats normal, but when the cells are exposed to the proper conditions they become dangerous.

 

Saddening though.. that's what I mean. Everyone goes through it in some way or another... I just never got how anyone could just let it happen. People supposedly have the "anger" gene on my dad's side of the family. I guess I never got it under the proper circumstances or conditions. I don't get angry much. I get irritated, I never say it though but I do. I usually just deal with it.

 

ooo..i wish mine would die yet somehow they keep living. One does 3 grand worth of crack in a weekend and still continues to breathe by some miracle...I have no clue how.

 

well i'm 17 and i've never been sexually abused. Thank-God cuz if some bastard tried anything my friends would literally kill him.

 

well ya fight back and it just makes maters worse.. ya leave n they drag ya home by the hair n beat ya some more.. if ya tell ya get beat..women get stuck.. they have no car, no money and on place to go.. they got kids and hard to walk out the door with them across the desert or where ever.. fear makes them stay..and hope that the abuser will stop abusing...which NEVER happens.. so they stay n get abused or they get some help and GET OUT..there are local crisis centers every where. they have 800 # they'll come and get you and hide you and help you get a job and on your feet..if you need help call them now!!!.. ok I'm done..

 

Yeah.. my neighbor (the professional clown dude) volunteers for an abuse shelter.

 

i few drunken guys have hit on me and make me rather uncomfortable...but theyre easy to push off....as for being raped or abused, I've never had to deal with it at all...

 

eww...drunk men...my fav, lol.

 

It's fucking sick man... the world criticises the way Muslim men treat women... maybe western civilisation just hides it better or something

 

No... I just think people know about the muslim world and kind of take that as a sterotype with them... I think in the western world, most womynses are scared to say anything. It's the same in the muslim world... it's just that it's accepted in the muslim world. If I were raped or sexually assauted, I personally wouldn't know what to do. I mean... what can you do. I know one thing, there's probably more rape suspects running free out there than you could possibly imagine.

 

men are bastards

 

i think alot of it is women wanting people to feel sorry for them so they claim that they were raped or abused. but some are probably just whores. dont blame it all on the men.


and how the hell do you rape a man?!?!?!

 

Some (ok, alot of) frank Male thoughts on rape:

the first response put it best; shit happens. most guys are assholes, and in general guys aged 10-100 want sex way more than girls 0-20 do. so some guys take their assholeness too far and turn into rapists. it's just another sad fact of life. AIDS sucks, famine sucks, murder sucks, fascism sucks, and guess what rape really sucks.

the sadder facts: for whatever reason, we (still) live in a man's world. this has some repercussions. first, even tho there are far fewer women who lie about rape then women who are actually sexually assaulted, those few ruin it for the rest of you. and why is this true?

because of the saddest fact: it's not our problem. men getting raped isn't really a problem for us, so rape isn't really our problem. thats just the way the world works. I would have really loved for someone to come and do something about my psychotic parents ruining my life, but it turns out that it was nobody's problem but mine, so I had to be the one to do something about it. so it turns out that ladies, you have to be the ones to do something about rape.

that may seem really horrible, and in a way it is, but keep this in mind: in general, guys do think rape is a horrible thing, and under different circumstances we would work harder to stop it. but guess what? getting falsely accused of rape is our problem, whereas women getting raped, unless its our mother or sister or friend, isn't. so out of pure self interest, us non-rapist guys can't get totally on the ladie's side of the rape issue, because thats the side we are personally vulnerable from. i hope that made sense. basically, women don't rape us, but some of them falsely accuse us of rape, so we can't take the womens' side as much as we should.

but who gives a fuck about all that shit. the fact is, while it isn't as bad as Orsino thinks it is, sexual assault is a near epidemic problem, if the women in my life are any indication. so here are a few very obvious (to a guy) tips about what to do when it's happening:

(and if you think why the fuck should I listen to what a guy says about getting raped, remember this: when my stash gets found, i'm going to the big lock-down butt-pirate party upstate. so don't think for a second I don't know exactly what I'm gonna do when sum big mean motherfucker tries to stick his dick where it doesn't belong)

first: use your "Yes"s and "No"s very clearly. cuz a guy doesn't think he's raping you if he thinks you don't really mind.

if that doesn't work (i.e. a real rape), remember this: He's exposing his genitals to you! Hurt them! Kick, knee, or punch him square in the balls.

Ok now the good advice: if he's too big for that, or you're too drunk or too scared, try this one:
"Ok, Ok, but I'm on my period. I'll suck your dick baby. I give
really good head..."
Insert dick into mouth. Bite down hard, claw or death-squeeze his balls, and RUN! If you're really serious and you really really know for sure he's an evil rapist, bite his dick clean off, and/or rip his balls off.

Unless you're one of the 1 in 10 rape victims who is attacked by the guy in the ski mask with the knife/gun, I guarentee the above method, if used correctly, will work. For sure. Simply apply teeth and nails to dick and balls, and run. Simple as that.

BUT IF HE'S ARMED: Unless it's worth dying over, you pretty much have to let it happen.

But what if you've already been raped?
You have two real choices: the legal system and revenge. Don't write the legal system off too quickly. We all know it really sucks to be a rape accuser in court, but if he gets concivcted not only is he going to jail, he will be continually ass-pounded the entire time he is there. It's a strange rule of prison house karma that sex offenders get the shit raped out of them in prison. So be happy about that. And for god sakes find out all the shit about what to do if you get raped, you know, go straight to the hospital, don't change clothes, all that.

But the legal system is a joke, you say? That means revenge. If you have 1 decent male friend or non-bastard brother, tell them what happened and tell them to kick the guy's ass. They will do it. If they can't do it, they'll recruit their friends and the gang of them will do it. Trust me, there aren't too many acceptable reasons to kick anyone's ass anymore, guys will jump on one if you give it too them. And I don't mean break his nose, I mean put him in the hospital for weeks, cuz really most guys would love to beat the living shit out of a rapist. For some reason, the girls who have told me personally about getting raped and that the guy was still around, I offered to beat the dude senseless and they all turned me down. I have no idea what the psychology of that is about, y'all need to get over that shit.

So all the men you know are pussies and/or bastards? OK, you get to have the fun then. Get 20+ hits of acid. Go to the local sex shop and get handcuffs. Go to the guy in a public place, and act like the rape turned you on and you're a dirty little slut (I know thats horrible, but it gets alot better). This will blow his mind and turn him on immensely (i.e. make him stupid). Slip him the acid in a drink, or if that doesn't work do it when you're kissing him. But do it in public so he can't rape you again. Wait until he's tripping, or if he's being difficult wait until he's tripping balls. Get him in your car, strip him naked, handcuff him and drop him off in the ghetto or the boondock woods. At one end of the possibilities spectrum he dies, at the other he has the worst night of his life, in the middle he goes schizophrenic.
In any case, the score is closer to even.

Ok, so all of this sounds horribly violent, and even worse, proactive. Well I'm sorry ladies, if you want to combat sexual assault, you are going to have to be very strong. The reason it's a man's world is because men respond to violent men with strong, damaging reactions, and if you don't learn to do the same when neccasary we are just going to keep treating you like shit.

Well that was insanely long, but a serious topic deserves a serious discussion.

If you think I'm full of shit, please just trust me that it has hurt me to the core to hear about the pain and damage that rape has caused the women I care about.


P.S. Why don't men get raped? Simple. It's very easy to have an unwilling vagina, but it is very very difficult to have an unwilling erection.
(That means that if we don't want it, we don't get hard. That means no sex)

P.S.S. Men DO get raped. It's called prison. Get caught with an ounce of weed? Butt-rape. Run from the cops? Butt-rape. Have consensual sex with an underage girl? Oooohhhh, that's a ton of butt-rape. So remember, it does go both ways.