...to forget about an ex.? i am still feeling a bit frustrated about the whole thing. If i only had an honest answer to why we broke up. i know the reasons but i just cant face the fact that i was rejected by someone who i thought loved me. it's been two months now, and today i got an email from him saying he wants his cds back. I cant bring myself to see him again. i really cant. it'd make me really mad. i just want to forget about everything to do with him...but now!
err exes are hard. I have a rather difficult one myself. If you have a mutual friend have them drop them off for him. It gets easier I promise
Yer i agree, but imagine having to break up because of distance rather than problems. Now that sux. He wants me to go see him too. Sux even more.
Of course it's hard to forget someone you love......love cant be turned off like a light. It's even harder when you are left with unanswcered questions and unfinished business (so to speak). Of course it gets easier with time, and to say that is such a cliche, buts so true. I think it also helps to remind ourselves why things didnt work out and what about the relationship made us unhappy and unsettled as opposed to all the good things and happy times. If we constantly dwell on all those good things then that just makes things that much harder to come to terms with( and is very unrealistic, but it is so easy to do without even realizing, isnt it?) I know that sometimes I still think of my ex and I am sad about loosing someone I loved so much, but then I remind myself of why I was unhappy with him and then that just actually makes me happy that we broke up. I dont want to be with someone who brings negative energy to my life. Perhaps you can mail the cd's or have a friend bring them as someone suggested.....or tell him to come pick them up at a time when you wont be home and you can leave them out somewhere for him where maybe they wont be stolen. Anyhow, I wish you the best in getting over him.
now, that doesn't help me at all. my situation is the opposite, kinda. i'm the guy, in this, i guess. we didn't break up yet, though. that's why it didn't help me. and i don't know why i'm still writing. i just want to say something: i'm really sorry. i'm sure when you two broke up, he didn't want to hurt you. Love, Louise.
trying to block it out wont help...u must first come to grips with it before u can get over it...may take a while...might not but youll make...hang in there tiger
This probably works, but is not always the case. For me, I didn't get over mine until I completely dissociated from every mutual friend we had, gave up nearly an entire facet of my life just to avoid her; and realized I was much, much happier without her. When you don't want them back under any circumstance, you're ready to move on; how you get to that point varies though, imo.
