Why does he laugh?

I'm a woman who likes to try new things in bed. I have a f@*k budy who is 27. I am 41 and have a VERY healthy sexual appetite. I have no desire for a comitted relationship, children, or marriage and he know this. The other night I suggested to my 'friend' think of fantasies we could play out. I said he could text them if he felt more comfortable. I suggested toys, fantasies, whatever. I was open to what he might suggest with the exception of s&m. I'm not into pain. However, instead of saying ok, he kind of laughed nervously. What does this mean? I want to be more adventurous but I like the sex we have. I'm just a little dumbfounded by the laugh.

Any thiughts?

 

Fair play.
Have you spoken to him about it since? Sounds hilarious I gotta say
Bit of an anti-climax for you though ha

 

maybe he wants to roleplay that you're funny.

 

This isn't my first rodeo. For the past 7 years my preference is to just have f*@k buddies. But I have never had anyone laugh/giggle when asked about fulfilling sexual fantasies. Its so much easier and less dramatic to ditch the bf/gf crap. I just want to have fun. No attachments.

Total anti- and it sucks. Suggestions?

And no I haven't spoken to him about it again. I don't want to harp on it.

 

Maybe your suggestion of txt messaging sex fantasises made him laugh.?
I've txt my wife once or twice & told her their was some sexy lingerie under her pillow for her to consider putting on before I got home from work & for having sex when I got there. The idea worked ! Tell your buddy you were not joking & get him to use his phone for sexting.

 

First I want to say thanks for a legit post. I did say I was serious and he said he knew. I was merely attempting to make it easier for him if necessary. I wanted him to feel free to let his mind wander without pressure. Wouldn't most guys jump on that opportunity? A girl open to anything sans bondage and pain? That leaves a plethora of options.....