Why do women really like sex? "....

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by longhaul, Feb 16, 2009.

  1. longhaul

    longhaul Member

    Tell me what you think. I have some conclusions of my own, and I'm speaking from some experience. I have slept with a few women, most of them, I would say were normal. But most of my knowledge in this area is from conversations. I am married, and my wife and I talk openly, but a lot of my knowledge comes from my sisters. (I have three) And NO, they don’t talk TO me about these things, but they often have talked AROUND me, and are comfortable around me to be open in this area. I have never asked them this question, (that would be a little too far for a brother to go). I also have female friends and co-workers who I listen to. Not ease-dropping but open conversations among friends.
    I got some conclusions from different points of view and here they are. They are listed in order of what gives women the most desire, IMO.

    1 There is a deep seat drive in women to have vaginal sex, because it is needed for pregnancy. Even if the woman isn’t trying to get pregnant, the drives are still there.

    2. It makes her partner happy, and she gets lots of attention and is treated better than she would be otherwise.

    3. She gets lots of emotional validation during love making.

    4. Its fun and something that they can do together.

    5. It feels good and provides orgasm.

    Anyone disagree, or care to comment? Girls would you like to put your own order of importance. Be truthful, don't tell us guys what you think we want to hear.
     
  2. MaryJBlaze

    MaryJBlaze eleven

    why do men enjoy sex?
     
  3. RandomOne

    RandomOne Member

    ^
     
  4. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

    It just feels good. I'm not going to read into it anymore then that.
     
  5. neim

    neim Member

    this looks like HAL9000 trying to understand humans...
     
  6. *°GhOsT°LyRiC°*

    *°GhOsT°LyRiC°* Supporters HipForums Supporter

    yeah, most women dont look into it like that. i would have to disagree with the OP on the reasons women have sex. its not that complicated.
     
  7. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

    They aren't a different species or anything. All of those reasons are possible answers and their validity would vary from woman to woman.
     
  8. nesta

    nesta Banned

    vaginal sex, while pleasant for most women, can be the sole cause of orgasm in roughly only 1/3 of them.

    the clitoris, which is the ONLY human body part whose sole function is providing pleasure, is the most reliable means for reaching female orgasm, whether stimulation is provided manually, orally, by using toys, or whatever.

    women enjoy sex for lots of reasons, just like men, but they may be more likely to sometimes enjoy it for reasons other than reaching orgasm because many men aren't able to treat them right and help them to reach climax. there is a cultural emphasis on vaginal intercourse, and that is the main reason why it is often thought of as the "main event" sexually speaking. but sex≠procreation, and a "drive" towards vaginal intercourse simply isn't likely to exist beyond women interested in having children. rather, everyone, regardless of gender, has different things which excite them and can satisfy them. certainly vaginal sex is satisfying for SOME women, but i've never met one who has mentioned EVER being able to get off on vaginal sex alone, and i DO talk to them about such things when the topic comes up.

    no offense intended, but if orgasm is one of the last items on the OP's list of reasons women might like sex, then my guess is that you simply don't know how to do it right, and focus more on your own pleasure.
     
  9. Flesh Mound

    Flesh Mound Member

    Why do dolphins enjoy sex?
     
  10. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member


    Some of those reasonings maybe true for some women, but none of them are true for all women.

    Sex just feels good, having an orgasm feels good, it's just that simple. :D
     
  11. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member


    BAHAHAHA!!!!!
     
  12. sg girl

    sg girl Member

    it just feels good
    and the freakin endorphines are addicting at times lol
    ;)
     
  13. mizanthrope

    mizanthrope Member

    if it feels good do it.
     
  14. Funkateer

    Funkateer To swing on the spiral

    :cheers2: heres to never meeting any of the 2/3 of them ;)
     
  15. garfeld50

    garfeld50 Guest

    they like getting fucked like u like wacking off
     
  16. neim

    neim Member

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  17. silverhippy

    silverhippy Comfortably Numb

    WTF!!!! What a dumb ass question.. They like it cause it's better than a poke in the eye and T.V. sucks.. Geeez

    Peace
     
  18. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

    Yes, yes they are. I swear it I think I masturbate more than men do just because of the orgasms.
     
  19. underthesun

    underthesun Member

    orgasms are great but even if i never came, it is absolutely beautiful to have sex with someone you're in love with.... too bad some people enjoy sex mainly to feel validated.
     
  20. Same here. Do you have a porn collection? The reason I ask is because I sometimes think I have more porn than most men. Me + porn = :D

    I like sex because:
    1) It's a turn on to make a guy cum
    2) The orgasms feel good
    3) All of the above
     

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