why do people overcomplicate everything?

I have actually also been pondering this.
Are humans inherently worriers? It seems we always need something to worry about/something to complicate. Even a child can have worries about homework or getting in trouble with their parents, etc. Then we look back and think, wow, I was worried and complicated something so simple.. it seems I've started over complicating things with my reply=p soo, what I was trying to get across is that we simply complicate things because 'it's just in us to do so.'

 

Wow... I get a thumbs down for loving cool people. Only on HF.

 

I think we are.

I think we are.


Can I just say I find it funny I got flamed earlier.
The advice was again, to further come into my own, get over my fears & social insecurities

then APPROACH, but not with NEEDYNESS, girls

and provide lulz and fun

and lead.

And I'm a pussy-ass-bitch for complaining about this.

How come a girl isn't told she's being needy -- fucking ever.

Double damn standard. One sex has to become solid perfect secure human beings -- the other still doesn't do a damn thing until they're impressed.

And I'm a biatch for complaining. I wish I had better reasons now to get over my social insecurities other than women will finally fucking care. I really don't want to do it for them.

 

^Sigh.


Anyways, ppl. thrive on chaos. Not all ppl., but a lot. I think it stems from ppl. not being happy with the present moment and simple things or just aren't happy with themselves or their lives.

 

Girls are told they're needy all the time. I've never once met a guy that wanted a needy chick.

I do think that people create drama to liven up their lives. Some people really thrive on it.

 

^ but they can still find wuuv.

btw I will stop whining about that topic for a while.

 

:2thumbsup:

 

I gave you pos. rep for that (and btw I never gave you neg rep)

and speaking of rep... how comes some ppl can leave me cmnts on mine but I cant figure out how to leave cmnts w mine? I just see how to hit thumbs up or down but not how to leave a cmnt w it?

 

It's the scales under their name, icon and information. You can leave a comment if you're on a computer but if you're on a phone it doesn't work

 

Oh, so all this time when I was hitting "like post" or whatever on the actual posting was that even leaving rep either way then or just liking the post? In any case, I see it now. Thanks

 

hipforums did kind of overcomplicate the approval/disapproval procedure.

 

amerenglish is a language in which it is seldom possible to be both simple and honest at the same time.

 

I wish life wasn't so obnoxious. Life is full of poeple who feel the need to shit on everyone around them. Mabie I'm just cranky... anyone have any advice on how to deal with selfish greedy poeples?

 

shit on them.

 

Hahaha. Yeah, that. ^^^

How to deal with selfish, greedy people? For real?.... Don't let em near you, your home, your money, etc.- Leaches are bad.

 

It sucks though when its your family and when its friends who have changed because the woman they chose to be with talks them into doing shitty things.

 

I just read this whole thread and have no idea what it's about.

 

Have you ever had anyone overcomplicate things that should have been easy?:afro:

 

most things in nature are unimaginably incomprehensibly complex to begin with. however romantic it might be to try and pretend otherwise, how ever seductive the siren call of village idiot simplisticness, to pretend otherwise, is simply and absolutely self deception.

i do agree though, that reality being complex enough to begin with, we don't need to be further complicating it. most often the we do so though, IS with village idiot simplisticness.