Why Do Lesbians Need Romance With Sex?

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by susie_tight, May 15, 2015.

  1. susie_tight

    susie_tight Member

    Or even friendship. At least the ones i come across, just don't wanna use each other for sex, not making love, but to just fuck with no strings.
    Sometimes its cool, but not every time with every one. Some girls you just don't wanna know personally, or get all luby-duby when i just met them.
  2. sunflower84

    sunflower84 Guest

    Insecure?.. think they need to be validated.

    I Came across that too when i was single. They would say they were looking for fun but when it came to it they turned it around saying no they wanted relationship and romance.
  3. Mattekat

    Mattekat Ice Queen of The North

    That kind of sounds like most women to me, not just lesbians.
  4. sunflower84

    sunflower84 Guest

    Def understood more what guys go through when i turned lez.
  5. la Principessa

    la Principessa Old School HF Member

    I think it has to do with hormones more than anything. Girls that are that close form a tight bond. I personally don't seek out casual sex, but that's me. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to have NSA sex and not wanting romance. Romance isn't for everyone, which is why we need to be upfront with what we are looking for when we meet new people.
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  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

    I only need romance from my partner. Any other girl is free game to me. :)
  7. DrinkBudweiser

    DrinkBudweiser New Member

    Sounds like it's just the string of lesbians that you've ran into. I know plenty who just wanna fuck and don't care, I know plenty who are soulmate searching. I hate when people refer to lesbian dating as something completely different than straight dating. There's all kinds of different breeds of women out there who act and think differently. Women just tend to be a bit more emotional.
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  8. vjo

    vjo New Member

    Its not just the lesbian , it happen to straight people I think. Cuz we r still the same as a human. When u r with ur partner both of u need romance and have sex. Its a human basic u know. Correct me if I'm wrong
  9. Noserider

    Noserider Goofy-Footed Member

    What's wrong with romance?
  10. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

    It's too Victorian for people this day.
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  11. Noserider

    Noserider Goofy-Footed Member

    Guess I'm old fashioned. Or maybe just old.
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  12. IAmMaxieHearMeRoar

    IAmMaxieHearMeRoar Maxie Lee Courtland-Colton

    What? Romance comes first, sex comes second.
  13. well said
  14. vina

    vina Member

    I don't like games. So straight up, tell me what I'm in for. Romance, sex, or friendship.
  15. I'm always about romance and love. I'd never play mind games with anyone. Male or female.

    If I'm into you, I'll let you know and tell you what I'm looking for. I love woman, but I'm a pansexual and it's all about personality to me.

    When I stick with a partner, I'm in for the long run with them. :) This is just me though.
  16. CammyDucante

    CammyDucante Member

    i went through that at first. Now that I am single again. I have had no strings sex but mostly I have friends with benefits that I can meet occassionally.

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