Why do I stop myself from coming

Okay so I have always come close to coming but stopped myself, too intense or something. I finally got myself a vibrator and I was so excited that I used it straight away, played for a while. Then I got a huge bulge near my clit so by rubbing and using the vibe I had my first EVER orgasm. I even squirted which freaked me out but felt great. I just couldn't wipe my smile off of my face after.

I think I know the reason I think it is time and not being super horny but why oh why am I stopping myself from coming now including using the vibe. It is not the biggest thickest vibrator it's called a Lia do I need one that is bigger and little more powerful? This is a new world for me. My husband is thrilled that I am exploring this side of myself finally. :daisy:

 

Sounds like you dont need to think about not being able to cum anymore & you possibly didn't even have anything to squirt onto when it happened.
Depends what & where you were lying on at the time.

 

oh yeah!

sounds like you're letting your thinking interfere with your feelings.

what is so scary about enjoying and exploring the animal inside you?

ask your hubby if he would like to learn sensual massage ... and practise on you!

cheers!

 

yeah over thinking it completely. Need to learn to let go. ATM I seem to enjoy getting to know about the big O myself without my husband which is kind of cool and he doesn't mind. Why should he anyway because he wanks without me often lol.

Any women out there with advice and info about good vibrators with a bit more power???

 

Did you freak out a bit when you squirted or did you just let yourself go without any thoughts of where it may go - bed sheets etc.

 

No I didn't freak out I actually had a towel under me it just took me by surprise as I wasn't expecting it. I am time poor and I def. need to relax more.

 

Ok, you were possibly hoping something would happen eventually if you placed a towel under you, or was it just to protect what ever you were laying on at the time? You just got more than you hoped & loved the experience more to.
You must like experimenting with yourself occassionally sexually to achieve a few fantasy's to make them eventuate - awesome!

 

I really dont think a different vibrator will make a difference. It is all about letting evrything go. Letting your mind go to what i call "that place" where I am relaxed. Make sure you are hitting your "g spot" Jason Julius has a bunch of info on the internet about this and it has helped me alot.

Just last night I cummed for the first time while my H was going down on me. During the next hour I cummed and orgasimed over and over again. AMAZING FEELING!!!

 

Just an update have had a few orgasms now, some with my vibe, some with my fingers only and all is great. Am waiting for some new toys which is making me super excited if you know what I mean. All I can say is wow.

 

So the block was mental afterall?