Why did you try the Bi option?

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by topper, Jul 26, 2018.

  1. topper

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    What was it that peaked your interest in Bi fun? Are you into the same sex or just looking for a suitable way to have some satisfaction? Would you mind if your spouse wanted to Bi experiment? Have you and your spouse ever "experimented" before , how about together?
     
  2. LowHangers

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    I was taking a walk in a local park when I was about 26 when a gay guy asked me if I wanted a blow job, I said "Sure, why not". It was the best blow job I ever had to that day and my wife was ok at it at the time (not as good as he was) so I stopped over to his place 2-3 times a week so he could suck my cock. It was a couple years later that I wanted to try it so I hooked up with another married guy on Craigslist for mutual oral. I was hooked the first time and he and I were suck buddies for almost two years about twice a week. My first wife would have never wanted to discuss it, or consider doing it. If she knew I was sucking cocks she probably would have left and really screwed me over. She did divorce me after 25 years but not because I sucked dick (she never knew) but because we just grew apart. I was giving my present wife pointers on how to better suck my cock when she asked me "How do you know so much about sucking dick?" I replied "Because I've sucked my share of dicks". She says..."Really?...I said "Oh Yeah! She wasn't disappointed or shocked either as she stated she knew a lot of married men did but she never expected me to be one or even tell her. Some days past when she said she'd enjoy watching me suck another guy. Back to Craigslist I went and in about two weeks I located a married guy to stop over who didn't mind my wife watching. She watched for about 30 minutes then wanted to suck mine while I sucked his. I swallowed his load and she swallowed mine. He was invited back by her request so her and I could suck him off together. All of this lead to many MMF threesome's which still take place a couple times a month. She's a trooper, but has no desire to invite another woman. She said she'd never eat a pussy...bummer, but I'm happy with what we do together. She loves to be hit from both ends (mouth/vagina) after a lot of mutual/shared sucking has taken place and we've all eaten some cum. She wants the 2nd or 3rd loads shot while we bang her so we really work her over and last much longer.
     
  3. TDH47

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    Mine happened while camping, my friend and I stared talking about sex which ended up with us giving each other head. That blossomed into several more encounters with him and others. I’m attracted to both sex’s and would find it very hot if my wife was also bi.
     
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  4. KW67

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    The short answer is that it would have happened eventually anyway, so why not. Hindsight being what it is, I now realize I have been Bi since my early teens. My self and two neighbor boys would sometimes run around somebodies house naked when the sitter was busy doing other things. On one occasion we were camping in a backyard and somehow we all wound up naked hard and trying oral and anal. That stopped that night though and was a memory suppressed for a very long time. In my late teens and early twenties I was in the Navy and surrounded by dicks of every size and shape. I found myself looking at them when I could, without being caught. It was different back then, Gay and Bi behavior was against the rules. And could get you kicked on and kicked out. Again, those thoughts and memories were suppressed for a time. After my wife and I were married for a few years, things were getting stale, the porn wasn't doing it for her, I was depressed and out of work. We tried swinging once with a couple which didn't do much for me. Somehow she or I got into one of those AOL Chat rooms and met a guy who suggested a 3 some. We met at a hotel and things progressed to where I went down on him after he got done doing my wife. A throat load of cum later, and I knew I was doing something I liked and wanted to continue doing. Life and fear have kept me away from that for several years, but I am having that stirring again, and want to begin again.
     
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  5. Catcher

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    I started while married to my 1st wife while in my 40's. Answering ads and getting oral. Then started playing with my ass to stretch it open. After my 2nd wife (total mistake) left me I took the dive and gave up my virgin ass to my first real dick! LOVED it so damn much could easily be gay but I also love women and boobs. Since then I will take dick every so often and recently swallowed my first load. I liked it although people that smoke have bitter tasting cum or at least that is what I have found to be true. I will suck, swallow, rim, take dick in my ass, and also like facials anytime!
     
  6. Uhardrodnme

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    For many years I'd wondered how it felt -- physically, sexually, emotionally, etc. -- to be a woman getting fucked by her man. Then one night, while home alone watching porn & jerking slowly & deliciously, the man fucking the woman pulled out, moved downward and pushed it up her ass, and she went wild. I guess I had been aware that gay men do that to each, but it had never occurred to me, until that moment, that I could be on the receiving end by taking it there; "Damn, he could be doing that to me!" I whispered hoarsely, and suddenly I was cumming hottet & harder & louder than I ever had, and just as suddenly knew that I would do whatever it took to get that hard, slippery, dee-reaching, cum-spewing cock in MY ass!
     
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  7. wattdoyaknow

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    I was curious about being with another guy for a few years before my first experience. I wanted to know what it felt like to have a cock inside me. My first experience was with a transgender girl. It was a great time. I don't want to go into details here, but she was beautiful and fun. I wish I would've met her again like she wanted instead of being scared that my "friends" would find out about me being bi.
     
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  8. Topher1972

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    I’m not sure when these feelings and urges started as it’s been so many years now. I started exploring anal pleasure at an early age, 12 or 13 probably by fucking my self with household objects and loved it. I guess that had something to do with it. I was only into girls at the time and hadn’t even thought of experimenting with the same sex. At some point I watched gay and bi porn. Then I guess I figured, hmmm I wonder what sex with a guy would be like. From then on until my first experience at about 38 years old, I just fantasized and anally masturbated with dildos and such pretending it was a real penis. I’m 46 now and have only had a couple same sex experiences, both mutual oral but I have one hell of an imagination and plan on fulfilling those fantasies. It seems the older I get, the stronger my bisexual urges get.
     
  9. Uhardrodnme

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    Go for it -- it will amaze you far beyond your wildest expectations, and change your life forever!
     
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  10. Topher1972

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    I will when I get the chance. It’s not easy finding someone whom I can trust to be disease free. What’s the name of the personals like the ones Craigslist shut down?
     
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  11. Uhardrodnme

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    Don't remember. Type the question to Google, it'll give you a list. I've been picked in City Park dozens of times, taken somewhere & fucked out of my head! Gay & bisexual men hang out & meet in parks, even Interstate rest stops.
     
  12. RaleighChris

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    I had never considered it until a good friend and I started jerking together. I enjoyed watching him and being watched, but jerking each other was something that he pushed for, and needless to say, it took a little convincing. I didn’t hate it, and getting jerked was great, but I wouldn’t fantasize about it, nor was there a desire to do more. All that changed after I made him cum for the first time. I absolutely loved it. When he started to moan, “I’m getting close dude...fuck don’t stop...you’re gonna make me cum...” I remember feeling crazy turned on, like it was wrong, but couldn’t take my eyes off his cock as I waited for it to erupt. As his warm load poured from his cock all over my hands and wrists, I was even more turned on. I loved the sight of it, the feeling of his twitching body, hard cock in one hand, balls in the other, cum all over, and the “I can’t believe I just made him cum” one. It was hot and erotic and kinda taboo, and soon after, I started fantasizing about doing more. Tasting him, wrapping my lips around his cock, taking one of his balls in my mouth, maybe even taking one of his warm loads in my mouth. A few weeks and a bunch of handjobs later, we got drunk and I got my wish...and a couple weeks after that, I took my first load in my mouth. Sucking his cock was better than I imagined, and taking his cum was absolutely incredible. I loved it and couldn’t get enough of his cock and cum. It was right around that first bj when I started fantasizing about taking his cock in my ass. It took a few months to build the nerve to ask, and to loosen my hole enough to be able to take it, but we eventually fucked. Well, the first time was definitely sex, not fucking, that came later, as did a few all guy threesomes, facials, ass-to-mouth, being a dirty little butt slut for an older daddy, and almost everything in between.

    It’s hard to believe something that at first took some convincing to get into, became a huge turn on for me. I love women, and they’re my primary action, but something about being with a guy, more specifically, pleasing a guy, is wildly erotic, and something I really enjoy!
     
  13. Colt Hunter

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    i was always curious and then a married guy that comes into the strip club I work at asked me to strip for his wife's party. I did and then afterwards he offered me money to suck his cock. first i wasnt interested until he got to an amount that I liked so I sucked his cock and loved it.
     
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    I'm not sure why I started, I know it began as i noticed i enjoyed seeing guys dicks - like in a shower at the Y. It excited me. I began to watch guys on cam. CIC thought about it more and more, then i let a guy suck me, which only increased my wanting to try giving oral. So I built up my courage and went to a bathhouse. And found I truly enjoyed it
     
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    I guess my curiosity has been brewing for some years. I come from conservative MO and moving to CA makes me feel like I can be ok with it. Don’t want to be in a same sex relationship per se. I still love women and their curves. But my desire to have another option is getting stronger.
     
  16. Colt Hunter

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    I am not in a relationship with a guy. I am not interested in that. I dont connect with a guy that way. I like having sex with men.
     
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  17. sean15666

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    i was very curious for a long time and then had an opportunity and it was so much fun.
     
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    Was watching straight porn with a friend i said that the guy had a huge cock my friend agreed. I started rubbing my cock through my trousers he said since its your birthday why not get it out. I think it was out before he finished his sentence. I asked him to watch me. He was obviously enjoying watching me stroke my cock. I asked if i could look at his at first he said no. I asked again and he said ok but don't laugh. Of course I was gagging to see it so agreed. Well he pulled out the most beautiful cock i have even seen. Long and an awesome curve. I was finding it difficult to keep my hands off it. I asked if i could touch him and he was as keen as i was. Sat stroking his awesome cock for about 10minutes and could no longer keep it out my mouth. Sucked that beauty until he came in my mouth. Swallowed it all didn't like swallowing but after a few times with him i got to love swallowing.
     
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    I've always admired men's cocks. Not so much men, just there shafts and nuts. Got to wanting every shaved cock and ball sack in my mouth, I love having it done to me so why not suck it if it's pretty. Talked my wife into using dildos on me and feeding me my own cum, it hurt at first but if girls can take it I wanted to be able to as well. After a few times I started to love the way it got me off and my seed started taisting better. Finally told my wife my fantacys over the years and that I wanted to try sucking cock and that I would like to open my legs for someone and let them fill me up with there laod.
     
  20. LowHangers

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    I've always felt the same way too. My first wife of 25 years was not welcoming to it but my present wife of five years found my fantasies very erotic and exciting. We've had a male lover for the past two years that we play with once or twice a month. His relationship with us has enhanced ours and bonded us closer.
     
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