Well I have been having sex alot recently sex/BJ or masterbating. I met a new girl and everything was hot and heavy. I got an erection then as soon as I put on the comdon I started to lose my erection and it wouldn't come back. This has never happened to me before. The condom did feel a little tight at first but I do have an average sized penis. When I got home I was able to get it up I am only 20, this has never happened before. I haven't had any recent life changes if that would have anything to do with it. My diet is not the best I don't each as much, for no reason. I also just got a piercing today. Why would this happen? HELP.
...because you're participating in the real worl, where thoughts and emotions have greater control over you sexual performance than your desire. And we say us men are always ready. Yeah, right. First, quit panicking~! Your OK. Piercings, diet, masturbating, tight fit, etc. not really too important. You had a hang up. What? I don't know, maybe you don't either. Best cure is to explain it to her and (unmanly, I know!) ask for patience. Do some kissing and licking then make a small joke of,"well, let's see what happens this time." Maybe the ACT of putting on a condom threatens your subconscious masculinity. Whatever you do, try not to get too embarassed - that'll kill erection faster than anything else. Unless she's laughing at you, always start again, even if you have to wank in front of her (most women get a kick anyway.) She will be able to help if you're wise enough to let her. I once told a pro to get away from me when it happened, she who knew 3 times more about it than me. Not to say this gal is one; just to say patience and sympathy work wonders. OK?
