Hey guys im new to the forums and new to bisexual sex in general. Im 20 and recently started hooking up w this other guy i met online tony,23. Things were going great the first few times we met up. He was basically showing me the ropes on bottoming, and i was getting used to pleasuring him. But then he started talking about fighting often and we'd usually never agree on things. Idk its bc were both really stubborn but he would contest me on everything! Anyways our 'fling' soon flatlined when he said he only wanted to smoke and chill, not fuck anymore. Soon after on his final departure he gave me 8 of 10 bucks for the pot we smoked. I was like its 10 bucks asshole and he was like you were smoking all of it and all this bullshit. And then he headbutted me in a fury and left. I kept my cool when he hit me cuz i was in my house. But idk why im posting this. I understand he was a shitty person to begin with. But he was sooo good at sex. And i wouldve stood his shit if he kept fucking me. Should i feel bad that i let things go to far out of hand? Was it my fault for not curbing him earlier? Questions questions...
You should've let him hit the curb sooner, but you seem to have a tendency for submission on a light level. Maybe you should look for a light bdsm player who is gay or bisexual who wants to be your dominant. Abuse isn't something to put up with just for sex. Dom/sub relationships are usually based off of trust and understanding of a persons boundaries. So then you can get the love and respect you need along with the great sex! But I would make sure it's a LIGHT bdsm player because from the things you said in your post you seem to like being dominated but not disciplined and everything else that comes with the more heavier players. I hope this helps!
