Why did i say yes... :(

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Spanky_andTHEwalrus, Aug 19, 2004.

  1. Spanky_andTHEwalrus

    Spanky_andTHEwalrus Member

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  2. misfit

    misfit Member

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    Tell him your sorry but you don't like him. Go off and cry. Then get over it. You will feel shitty, but you won't make him feel as shitty as he would if you just started avoiding him. Trust me, I know. Directness is sometimes best. It's best to just get it over with.
     
  3. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    indeed. get it over with quickly. the faster the better.
     
  4. sonador_hermosa

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    make a clean break. it's worse to lead the guy on. make it clear that you just aren't feeling it. ask him to please stop being so clingy and respect your decision.
     
  5. wvhipster

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    Yes, leading a guy on is the worst. My now ex-girfriend did that to me after us being together for around 6 months. She said she didn't want to hurt me. Not only did it hurt me....alot. It also made my opinion of her drastically change. And I know I wouldn't feel how I do about her now had she just been honest to me about herfeelings when they first changed. Honesty truly is the best policy.
     
  6. Moonjava

    Moonjava Senior Member

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    Grrrrl, get your nikes on and JUST DO IT!!
     
  7. CoolDudeTreeHopper

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    yup... like they said, you should tell him that you dont feel for him that way and stuff...

    at first he'll probly keep calling you and telling you how much he Loves you , but withen a few days it should die down..
     

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